Quoting whoknowsx:" Yeah, I guess lots of foreplay + lots of wine + some faking + lube may be the key until I'm back to myself :/"
Try some self stimulation and see if it helps.
<blockquote><b>Quoting whoknowsx:</b>" I use to enjoy giving head, not sure whats going on now. I think the fact that I havent had sex since ... [snip!] ... That + the traumatic healing + breastfeeding has me dry as a dessert with no desire or ability to get wet or turned on."</blockquote>
Aw, ugh I had that dry desert problem while pregnant and I cpuldnt get into it anymore so I stopped. I hope things are normal when I try again.