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so over it! vent! *frisky2times* Due August 27 (girl); 2 kids; El Paso, TX, United States 2457 posts
status 28th Nov '12

Ughh I'm so tired of dh! I don't even want him home anymore i don'teven remember the last time he have me a hug or even touched me for that matter, oh wait yeah i do it was like two weeks ago when he asked fora bj! My mil was supposed to be here when my baby is born but now she will be out of town. Im stuck with dh as my birthing partner, i don't even want him there! I don't want him in the room and i don't even want him at the hospital, he can't even be a supportive husband let alone any type of support during labor! I have talked to him about how i feel lonely that we don't talk that ever since i got pregnant he just ignores me. He says he its sorry and his only excuse ishe doesn't know why he is like that. Well I'm over it, i have had no emotional support through out this pregnancy or my last so this time I'm just going to do it on my own, i seriously don't even want to be around him for the next 6 months! I don't even remember the last time he told me he loved me! Im just tired of everything! I want to just be pregnant and enjoy it Alone for the next 5 weeks and then enjoy the birth on my own i want to cut the cord i want to be alone with the baby And not have him there.i an just tired of him disappointing me and hurting me more i don't even want to be in a position where ill get my feelings hurt once more! Hence the reason i don't want him there.

Faye's Mama 1 child; Springfield, MO, United States 4569 posts
28th Nov '12

He has just as much right to be there as you do. Its not just your child.

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65297 posts
status 28th Nov '12
Quoting Dōngtiān:" He has just as much right to be there as you do. Its not just your child."


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Selfish much, OP?

*frisky2times* Due August 27 (girl); 2 kids; El Paso, TX, United States 2457 posts
status 28th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dōngtiān:</b>" He has just as much right to be there as you do. Its not just your child."</blockquote>



I agree with you completely, i just don't want him there. I would never tell him he could not be there, I'm just so frustrated and hurt at how he has been my whole pregnancy that im feeling resentful right now.

MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD) 66 kids; Sterling, Illinois 11519 posts
28th Nov '12

I understand your upset, and he sounds like he can be insensitive! This is a hard time for a women to go thru and he should be helping you thru it! Tell him how you feel like u dont want him near becuz he cant be supportive and loving towards you

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15526 posts
28th Nov '12

Have you told him how you feel? Maybe he doesn't know he's hurting your feelings?

*frisky2times* Due August 27 (girl); 2 kids; El Paso, TX, United States 2457 posts
status 28th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):</b>" Have you told him how you feel? Maybe he doesn't know he's hurting your feelings?"</blockquote>




Oh yeah i have and everytime i do.he just.says i don't know why I'm like that.

*frisky2times* Due August 27 (girl); 2 kids; El Paso, TX, United States 2457 posts
status 28th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD):</b>" I understand your upset, and he sounds like he can be insensitive! This is a hard time for a women to ... [snip!] ... be helping you thru it! Tell him how you feel like u dont want him near becuz he cant be supportive and loving towards you "</blockquote>



That's exactly how i feel, i feel like if he can't be supportive and loving towards me i don't want him around

Veronica m6 Due February 25 (boy); Fort Richardson, Alaska 1514 posts
28th Nov '12

I'm sorry you are having such a rough time and I hope it gets better. Try setting him down, telling him your feeling, your thoughts and putting your realistic relationship demands out there. He can't change what he isn't aware of. I know you said you have told him before. That is not what I am talking about. Sit him down and allow him to read what you just posted....
If a person truly loves and cares about you they will always tell you the truth, even if it hurts...BECAUSE...they could never tell you a lie.

*frisky2times* Due August 27 (girl); 2 kids; El Paso, TX, United States 2457 posts
status 28th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting VERONICA. MOM OF 6:</b>" I'm sorry you are having such a rough time and I hope it gets better. Try setting him down, telling him ... [snip!] ... loves and cares about you they will always tell you the truth, even if it hurts...BECAUSE...they could never tell you a lie."</blockquote>




That its actually a good idea, thank you

Veronica m6 Due February 25 (boy); Fort Richardson, Alaska 1514 posts
28th Nov '12
Quoting *frisky2times*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting VERONICA. MOM OF 6:</b>" I'm sorry you are having such a rough ... [snip!] ... even if it hurts...BECAUSE...they could never tell you a lie."</blockquote> That its actually a good idea, thank you"


You're welcome :wink: