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Uhh NO! Logan,Lilly&Landen's Mom♥ 3 kids; Virginia 2797 posts
status 28th Nov '12

Today one of my friends called me and asked if my son was home and i told him yeah. Well he said this little girl that is in his class at school wants to talk to him. He said she was going to ask him to be her boyfriend. Uhm wtf. NO! My son is 4 years old, he doesn't need a girlfriend. What is wrong with some people?
And he wasn't playing around he was 10000% serious. It just kind of upsets me. I want my son to enjoy being a kid not have some girl trying to be his girlfriend.

♥T-D-A♥ 17 kids; Michigan 1892 posts
28th Nov '12

It's harmless at 4 years old - they really don't even know what it means to be boyfriend & girlfriend. It's just a title.
I had a "boyfriend" in kindergarten - we just made each other crafts and talked on the phone like once a week. haha.

Piecey. Due May 13; 3 kids; K-Town, KL, Germany 64080 posts
status 28th Nov '12

It's not like they know what being by friend and girlfriend really is. It's just something fun to kids. You're overreacting.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
28th Nov '12

Calm down mama bear.....

AA&L Due June 23; TTA since Mar 2012; 1 child; Florida 721 posts
28th Nov '12

bwahhaha... I had a "boyfriend" at 5. We jumped through the sprinklers together, then one day he chose to play baseball and we were over :P

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
28th Nov '12

You're really upset about that?! :?...it's not like the kid wanted to marry him and take him away from you forever. They're 4 years old, they don't know what being a boyfriend/girlfriend really means. It's just all fun and silly to them.

✌Nikki☀ 1 child; Illinois 2110 posts
28th Nov '12

My baby girl will probably have lots of boyfriends at 4 years old cause she's so pretty=D lol



It's harmless. I wouldn't worry about it!

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
28th Nov '12

I had a boyfriend in kindergarten. We never kissed, or held hands or any of that stuff. Plus, I dumped him because he couldn't get a quarter to buy a ring out of those machines. :D

Mom2William&Michael 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New York 7600 posts
28th Nov '12

I think you're over-reacting. At that age it's like a game and all innocence. I had a boyfriend at 4. He pushed me on the swings and we got ice cream from the ice cream truck together. He's now a pretty cute drag queen with a nice fiance.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
28th Nov '12

I got "married" at that age lol. It's innocent. They will probably just share snacks in class and then get bored.

Logan,Lilly&Landen's Mom♥ 3 kids; Virginia 2797 posts
status 28th Nov '12

This little girl is a girl that told me she wanted to be just like her mom and have kids when she was 16 and told me that she has a "fat ass". She's not a normal 4 year old. Her "mother" has 4 other kids and makes her change diapers and shit. She's being kind of mean to him because he isaid ew i dont want a girlfriend and shes making fun of him now., :(

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
28th Nov '12
Quoting melindapple:" I had a boyfriend in kindergarten. We never kissed, or held hands or any of that stuff. Plus, I dumped him because he couldn't get a quarter to buy a ring out of those machines. :D"


I remember having a boyfriend in kindergarten too. We went out for one day. It was a day that we went on a field trip to the pumpkin patch and went on a hay ride. He sat beside me on the hay ride...and that was basically all our relationship consisted of. :lol:

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11246 posts
28th Nov '12

You are over reacting :?

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
28th Nov '12

I kinda think you're overreacting. It's cute. They are replicating what they see adults do.

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
28th Nov '12
Quoting Logan&Lilly's Mommy:" This little girl is a girl that told me she wanted to be just like her mom and have kids when she was ... [snip!] ... and shit. She's being kind of mean to him because he isaid ew i dont want a girlfriend and shes making fun of him now., :("


Well, I wouldn't over react about him having a 'girlfriend' at that age. But, if the girl is making fun of him and saying those kind of things (that she has a 'fat ass') those are things a 4 year old shouldn't be saying, I would talk to her parents about it or talk to the teacher so she can keep a closer eye on her and if she observes the little girl talking that way or making fun of your LO, she can have a conference with the parents.