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    • Yes I would get mad -- Votes: 14
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DH/SO masturbating Ashlee Ellis 2 kids; Florida 833 posts
29th Nov '12

Ok so my friend called me the other day and was pissed cause she walked in to the bathroom and her bf was masturbating. I told her I didnt see why she would be so pissed off and she hung up on me and hasnt talked to me... She's a b***h anyways and always gets pissy when she doesn't hear what she wants I even texted her that.




I personally don't see the problem, I have watched my DH masturbate to video and pictures of us and it turned me on not piss me off. If I don't feel like having sex DH will go and masturbate( if he needs too.) It's not a big deal in our relationship. I don't masturbate often but the few times I have I tell DH or send him pics and videos and he doesn't get made either he love it. Idk I just find it weird shed be mad about that.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
29th Nov '12

I don't care if he masturbates. I don't always want sex. I don't care if he does it watching p**n. It's not like he's ever going to be with those women. It's just visual stimulation, not like he wants to marry them.

Fat-and-Happy TTC since Mar 2008; 1 child; Texas 13915 posts
29th Nov '12

It would only piss me off if I wasn't getting any. Lol

wigglewaddle 2 kids; Wichita, Kansas 2399 posts
29th Nov '12

Better self love then loving on someone else. Not a big deal imo.

Emilia's mumum +1! 2 kids; Beaverton, Oregon 11023 posts
29th Nov '12

DH and I have an agreement, if one of us is in the mood and the other says no then masturbation is fine. We always give the other person an option first, mainly because my DH has a long recovery time and if he masturbates at say 9 after DD is asleep and I want to have sex at 10 it isn't happening.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
29th Nov '12

its normal to masterbate.. unless he is doing everday and not having sex with you then its a problem i guess.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49352 posts
29th Nov '12

He does it and I do it. Big deal. BUT if he's doing it and refusing me. THEN I'd be mad.

Proginoskes II 3 kids; North Carolina 1295 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" He does it and I do it. Big deal. BUT if he's doing it and refusing me. THEN I'd be mad."

:!::!: This.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
29th Nov '12

It's his body. I don't dictate what he can and cannot do with his own body. I can't see how people can get mad about it.



If we aren't having sex and he's masturbating, I wouldn't be mad. I'd talk to him to see what the problem was, but that would be about increasing our sex life, not preventing him from masturbating.

κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
29th Nov '12

We both do it. I'd never have a problem with it,why would i? It's natural as hell to touch yourself.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
29th Nov '12

I would have asked her why she didn't just join in lol.

Brandi Eastman 2 kids; Youngsville, Pennsylvania 1452 posts
29th Nov '12

Ive walked n on SO....nbd

LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1624 posts
29th Nov '12

I wouldn't be pissed. I do it. Why can't he? There are times when he wants sex and I don't and there are times I want sex and he doesn't. Better he use his hand than another girl. Then he wouldn't have anything to masturbate. Lol :p

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
29th Nov '12

Maybe they are having issues with sex? I wouldn't just assume she's being crazy over nothing. But she could be. If I wanted Sex and found dh masturbating I'd be a bit upset too, if he had asked me for some first and I wasn't in the mood then, no I wouldn't be.

Adnap South Dakota 228 posts
29th Nov '12

It'd be one thing if he's masturbating more than they were having sex.....

AKA a p**n addiction of some sort maybe?

But shit, I wouldnt get mad if my SO had the urge to rub one off. Its natural. Hehe