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If it happens, it happens. ☮MamaKittyLove 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Sarasota, FL, United States 1176 posts
29th Nov '12

Anyone else doing the whole "if it happens, it happens" thing with DH/SO?



We're not TTC exactly but not doing anything to prevent it lol.
(In all honesty though I'd LOVE to be pregnant again :wink:)

*Mary Moon* 1 child; New York 3601 posts
29th Nov '12

We were sort of like that with DS. Pull out method and keeping track of my cycle but not using BC with the attitude of if it happens we will love him/her. We never imagined just how much we would love him either. *sniffle*

_The Rainmaker_ 2 kids; Houston, Texas 1062 posts
29th Nov '12

I did, only lasted 4 mo before I got pregnant :) I think it's the best way to TTC with out all the stress!

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
29th Nov '12

I did that after the first six months of TTC, it isn't working for me... Good Luck though

MiddayHavoc 1 child; Louisiana 740 posts
29th Nov '12

That's how I conceived. I got off of birth control and just let it happen. Took about 8 months. We had both agreed that we wanted kids long before that. I didn't even tell my DH when i stopped the pill because I didn't want him to be stressed about trying to get me pregnant. That takes all the fun out of it lol

M&M12/13 Due October 15; 2 kids; noidea, TX, United States 7579 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮MamaKittyLove:</b>" Anyone else doing the whole "if it happens, it happens" thing with DH/SO? We're not TTC exactly but not doing anything to prevent it lol. (In all honesty though I'd LOVE to be pregnant again :wink:)"</blockquote>




We are ttc but were doing the if it happens it happens, im in no rush to get pregnant im ready to be i just want it to happen in the right time. And im so glad to be off BC dd is 7 months :)

[Pinky & the [B] rain. TTC since Sep 2014; 2 angel babies; Illinois 5942 posts
29th Nov '12

*raises hand slowly...* we are.. :)

thisunrest India 10364 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮MamaKittyLove:</b>" Anyone else doing the whole "if it happens, it happens" thing with DH/SO? We're not TTC exactly but not doing anything to prevent it lol. (In all honesty though I'd LOVE to be pregnant again :wink:)"</blockquote>




You are *passively* ttc. IF you didn't want it you'd try and prevent pregnancy.

☮MamaKittyLove 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Sarasota, FL, United States 1176 posts
29th Nov '12

We both know we want more kids together at some point and honestly I'd rather them be close in age. I've hears that TTC is very very stressful and I'd honestly rather find out as a 'surprise' lol. Plus I don't think my husband likes the whole 'TRYING to conceive' part of it haha.

☮MamaKittyLove 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Sarasota, FL, United States 1176 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting thisunrest:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮MamaKittyLove:</b>" Anyone else doing the whole "if it ... [snip!] ... pregnant again :wink:)"</blockquote> You are *passively* ttc. IF you didn't want it you'd try and prevent pregnancy."</blockquote>




Well I mean when we got pregnant with my our son we literally weren't trying. I honestly forgot all about pregnancy :P

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting ☮MamaKittyLove:" We both know we want more kids together at some point and honestly I'd rather them be close in age. I've ... [snip!] ... rather find out as a 'surprise' lol. Plus I don't think my husband likes the whole 'TRYING to conceive' part of it haha."

if he doesn't like the whole "trying to conceive" part of it, what makes you think he's ready or wants another baby:?

☮MamaKittyLove 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Sarasota, FL, United States 1176 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting katxo:</b>" if he doesn't like the whole "trying to conceive" part of it, what makes you think he's ready or wants another baby:?"</blockquote>




He's weird lol. He says he wants another one but hates saying we're trying for another. For real he's weird lol

Brooke Cumberland TTC since Oct 2013; 1 child; Wisconsin 420 posts
29th Nov '12

Dh and I just got off the bc pill - we are trying, but not making it stressful. I do OPK's just because my cycle isn't regular from being on the pill. But I want it to happen soon - I'm determined this is our month!! :D My DD is 2.

☮MamaKittyLove 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Sarasota, FL, United States 1176 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommy-in-a-blended-family:</b>" Dh and I just got off the bc pill - we are trying, but not making it stressful. I do OPK's just because ... [snip!] ... cycle isn't regular from being on the pill. But I want it to happen soon - I'm determined this is our month!! :D My DD is 2. "</blockquote>




Well good luck!!! I hope it happens for you!! Sticky dust!!!!! :)

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting mommy-in-a-blended-family:" Dh and I just got off the bc pill - we are trying, but not making it stressful. I do OPK's just because ... [snip!] ... cycle isn't regular from being on the pill. But I want it to happen soon - I'm determined this is our month!! :D My DD is 2. "


At some point it does become stressful, like after the first 8 months when you've done the whole "I'm not going to try thing". I hope it works out for you that it doesn't get to that point but those words are non existant for me