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............. Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
29th Nov '12

buhbye.

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70775 posts
29th Nov '12

Kill yourself over a guy? f**king ridic lady. You have a kid to worry about.

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" Kill yourself over a guy? f**king ridic lady. You have a kid to worry about."


Not literally..Im just depressed, and stupid thoughts take over my brain.



Id never ever leave my daughter. ever.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
29th Nov '12

Aw, I'm so sorry to hear that. We all go through rough times and if you need to talk I can relate to feeling depressed.

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" Aw, I'm so sorry to hear that. We all go through rough times and if you need to talk I can relate to feeling depressed. "


thank you <3

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70775 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting Tikaytasha:" Not literally..Im just depressed, and stupid thoughts take over my brain. Id never ever leave my daughter. ever."


I understand breakups are hard and suck like hell, especially when there's cheating, but you need to get it together for your kid. If you were approved, go get a place for just you and your daughter.

♥Mj&Daryl♥ 2 kids; Spokane, Washington 2392 posts
29th Nov '12

:cry: I'm sorry you are going through such a hard time. I hope that things start to get better for you. I couldn't imagine what it would feel like to go through something like that. The guys I've been with in the past (life before SO) I expected that from. I would be heartbroken if SO ever did anything like that.



Just remember that things will get better, and you have a beautiful child to have a wonderful family with

Sammie Abel hardman 2 kids; United Kingdom 206 posts
29th Nov '12

Yeah don't kill yourself for a man you've got to think of your child it may seem hard now but at least he cheated on you before you moved in together he should feel very ashamed of himself I hope you can find someone to talk to and get the surpport that you need hold your head up high he's the one losing out he cheated :)

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" I understand breakups are hard and suck like hell, especially when there's cheating, but you need to ... [snip!] ... cheating, but you need to get it together for your kid. If you were approved, go get a place for just you and your daughter."


Absolutley. I never show my emotions in front of her, I don't want her seeing me like that. & that place is definitely way too expensive on my budget. Ive been looking around but everything is just sooo beyond expensive even for a 1 bedroom

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting Mj's Crazy Mama♥:" :cry: I'm sorry you are going through such a hard time. I hope that things start to get better for you. ... [snip!] ... anything like that. Just remember that things will get better, and you have a beautiful child to have a wonderful family with"


thank you =] means a lot!

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting Sammie Abel hardman:" Yeah don't kill yourself for a man you've got to think of your child it may seem hard now but at least ... [snip!] ... you can find someone to talk to and get the surpport that you need hold your head up high he's the one losing out he cheated :)"


yes thats exactly what I've been saying thank GOD he did it before we moved in and I was stuck in a lease with him for a year

*Amo a Mis Nenas* 3 kids; Birmingham, Alabama 8838 posts
29th Nov '12

he isn't worth your time hun! i've felt like that. exactly. to the point where i was with BD, and then the next night he went behind my back. i felt so depressed over that POS. bc i wanted our "family". i wanted my girls to have their real dad in their life. but it just wasn't meant to be.. i finally left his ass, and found DH. who is a wonderful father to my girls.



btw - BD hasn't seen the kids in a year and a half (his choice) and doesn't call or text me to ask how they are. hell, he wasn't even there for either one of their births...



trust me, any guy who will do that to you, isn't worth your time!



i found my strength in my kids. i wasn't always the best mother. esp when i was with BD . i feel like i was trying to be what he wanted me to be. go out and party with him on the weekends and leave the kids with my parents. and i admit i did wrong. but i've found i am a better person, a better mother, and a better lover/wife now that he's not in my life. i'm also much happier.

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting *Amo a Mis Nenas*:" he isn't worth your time hun! i've felt like that. exactly. to the point where i was with BD, and then ... [snip!] ... i've found i am a better person, a better mother, and a better lover/wife now that he's not in my life. i'm also much happier."


See, I love hearing stories like this and it actually gives me hope!



Ive moved on and dated other guys in the past, and every.single.relationship, he somehow managed to f**k every one of them up. He doesn't like the idea of me being with anyone else yet when he's with me he can't treat me right. Next guy I'm dating I'm telling NO ONE and leaving it a lllllll off of Facebook. f**k that.

*Amo a Mis Nenas* 3 kids; Birmingham, Alabama 8838 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting Tikaytasha:" See, I love hearing stories like this and it actually gives me hope! Ive moved on and dated other ... [snip!] ... with me he can't treat me right. Next guy I'm dating I'm telling NO ONE and leaving it a lllllll off of Facebook. f**k that."


i kept my relationship off facebook. i find it better that way. after BD found out i was seeing someone else. he would tell me he loves me and wants me back and everything i wanted to here. and as much as i "loved" him and wanted to take him back. i said NO. it got easier to say no after time went on.. and i'm VERY HAPPY with the choice I made. I am SO happy with DH!

user banned California 8675 posts
29th Nov '12

what happend hun send me an Pm if you want to chat. I missed it. Hope everything is okay.