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user banned California 8675 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" Because this forum, and a few others, are PROTECTED. FFA, TDC, S&R, etc? Those aren't protected forums. "</blockquote>




Why not so does AS get a special treatment? Why are they protected and which other one are as well?

user banned California 8675 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" Because they are. Because these are safe zones where you can speak and not have someone be a douchenozzle to you. I'm pretty sure it's in the forum rules somewhere, why not go look that up. "</blockquote>




I understand but why isnt like that in other forums?

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting ***BGLICIOUS****:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" Because they are. Because these are ... [snip!] ... the forum rules somewhere, why not go look that up. "</blockquote> I understand but why isnt like that in other forums?"


Because there is a large difference between being a douche to someone who posts a dumb baby name versus a mother who is choosing to abort or someone who has lost a child.

user banned California 8675 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" :? Because it's not. Go look it up. Mara likes how free spoken BG is, and thus, very few forums are protected. "</blockquote>




Lol so certain people get protected on Bg hmmmm I see thanks hun.

Jerilyn Due March 16; 17 kids; Binghamton, New York 184 posts
3rd Dec '12

You also could have posted it in a completely separate topic other than mine.. not trying to be rude.

user banned California 8675 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" Because there is a large difference between being a douche to someone who posts a dumb baby name versus a mother who is choosing to abort or someone who has lost a child."</blockquote>




Is different if you abort than loosing a baby. One you provoke it the other you dont expect it to happend.

user banned California 8675 posts
3rd Dec '12

Thanks ladies.

user banned California 8675 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" And there are different circumstances to why they're doing it. It's a heartwrenching decision either fucking way. "</blockquote>




We should discuss that in a different topic because those are two total different things Imo. You dont provoke a miscarriage but you provoke an abortion. Js. Ttyl.

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19175 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting ***BGLICIOUS****:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" Because they are. Because these are ... [snip!] ... the forum rules somewhere, why not go look that up. "</blockquote> I understand but why isnt like that in other forums?"


Because people are going to speak their minds, it happens and Mara likes to keep it that way for the most part. But she/we have decided things as touchy as Abortion, Special needs, health and well-being should be safe zones for someone to go and talk about something very personal and not get attacked. It's kind of like sanctuary.

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19175 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Oh jesus, Santa, and the Tooth Fairy... It IS SNOOKS. No wonder it felt like my brain cells were rotting off while trying to explain it to her. "


I've seen and known a lot of members on here but who the hell is SNOOKS??? :oops:

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" I've seen and known a lot of members on here but who the hell is SNOOKS??? :oops:"


I honestly thought she was talking about Snooki lol

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19175 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" One of the biggest blundering idiots I've seen on this damn site. Seriously. It takes picture books ... [snip!] ... SNOOKS and then RAIDERETTE for a while before she stopped posting stupid shit or hunting for drama, and she fell off the radar."


Huh. I don't recognize either of those UNs :oops: Well shit with all the other dumbass/trolls on this site it's nice to know I missed at least one :lol:

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19175 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" :lol: I only know this one because I was in a few threads with her, and I seriously used to shake my head in wonder at the shit she'd spew. :P"


Nice :lol:

Ashley N Oliver Due December 11 (boy); 35 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 321 posts
4th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jerilyn:</b>" This pregnancy is causing me so many problems. I have mild hyperemesis and had to quit my job because ... [snip!] ... in my life and I know the baby is just an innocent part of this but it's making my life hell. I really don't know what to do"</blockquote>



Keep in mind whose to say the next pregnancy will be different. All 4 of my pregnancies were horrible all 9 months :/. But think about it and make the best decision for yourself and your LO. Goodluck mammas.

Jerilyn Due March 16; 17 kids; Binghamton, New York 184 posts
4th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley N Oliver:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jerilyn:</b>" This pregnancy is causing me so many problems. ... [snip!] ... were horrible all 9 months :/. But think about it and make the best decision for yourself and your LO. Goodluck mammas."</blockquote>




Thank you! I feel like this was more of a vent than something I was actually going to do. My first pregnancy sucked. This one sucks more haha I was thinking this one would be different in a positive way. If this pregnancy actually works out ill be keeping the baby no matter how sick I get. I just had a terribly weak moment and feel really bad about it.