Bawse Litchfield, NY, United States 70743 posts
28th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" i don't need attention. i just need my pills. idgaf about the others in here. I didn't talk because ... [snip!] ... the same shit i've heard over and over and over. and still the only person I wanted attention from, ,hasnt given it to me."</blockquote>




I don't believe most of this post. You've been flaunting your pill popping since last night.
28. 5? 8?
I think 10's good



All with typos out the ass, of course.



You wanted nothing but attention from people here. You knew everyone would be all concerned and keep asking you what's wrong, and if you need to talk.



Sorry your husband is ignoring you, but based on how you were in here, I can't blame him for being pissed. You had a year of sobriety, and dumped it down the drain.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 104951 posts
28th Apr '13
Quoting drunk mayhem.:" who? "


my husband.



and before anyone says "go talk to him." I have. 103492034 times. he doesn't care.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 104951 posts
28th Apr '13
Quoting PartyPants:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" i don't need attention. i just need my ... [snip!] ... based on how you were in here, I can't blame him for being pissed. You had a year of sobriety, and dumped it down the drain."


it was far before friday night whn I took the pills.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
28th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" i don't need attention. i just need my pills. idgaf about the others in here. I didn't talk because ... [snip!] ... the same shit i've heard over and over and over. and still the only person I wanted attention from, ,hasnt given it to me."</blockquote>




Well, what's the response that one gives to a toddler in tantrum?
If you need support, need help, admit it to the person you want to help you, and work on healing whatever wounds you have that push you to self medicate. I'm not being high and mighty, I've struggled with similar things in the past and some not that long ago, and the trick is to figure out your triggers and work around them. Admit problems or struggles, and then work out a way to tackle them. Actively seek support and help, make healthy changes, find other coping methods that are healthier. Maybe even talk to someone who is well-versed in addiction and can help you regain confidence and strength so you can handle the underlying problem.



Relapse happens, but that doesn't make it an excuse to throw your hands up and say "fuck it".

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
28th Apr '13
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" my husband. and before anyone says "go talk to him." I have. 103492034 times. he doesn't care."


If he didn't care, he wouldn't hide them. He'd be like "take these and gtfo of my face."

Emily Dickinson 18 kids; Indiana 57844 posts
28th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" my husband. and before anyone says "go talk to him." I have. 103492034 times. he doesn't care."</blockquote>



He cares enough to hide your pills from you. He is saving your life, Bri. People don't do that if they don't care.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20227 posts
28th Apr '13
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" my husband. and before anyone says "go talk to him." I have. 103492034 times. he doesn't care."


Obviously he does if he took your pills.

Bawse Litchfield, NY, United States 70743 posts
28th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" it was far before friday night whn I took the pills."</blockquote>



Ok... So you lied about being sober?



I dunno, it's dumb. You need to get some fucking help for your kids' sake

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 104951 posts
28th Apr '13
Quoting PartyPants:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" it was far before friday night whn I took ... [snip!] ... Ok... So you lied about being sober? I dunno, it's dumb. You need to get some fucking help for your kids' sake"


no I was sober for 370 days. thanks though.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
28th Apr '13

We're just worried.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 104951 posts
28th Apr '13

it goes so much deeper than these pills,. but this reason, is the exact reason I say nothing. the condescending.

Bawse Litchfield, NY, United States 70743 posts
28th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" no I was sober for 370 days. thanks though."</blockquote>




So what I said stands. You were sober for a year, and threw it down the drain.
And what everyone else said....Carl wouldn't take your shit if he didn't care.

Emily Dickinson 18 kids; Indiana 57844 posts
28th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" it goes so much deeper than these pills,. but this reason, is the exact reason I say nothing. the condescending."</blockquote>




People tried to help. You didn't respond to any of it. It wasn't until someone said something you deemed negative that you wanted to discuss it. You are feeding off it.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
28th Apr '13

If you're only responding to the comments you find condescending, and not those of advice and support, do you still get to bitch about not getting the response you wanted?



What exactly are you looking to hear?

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
28th Apr '13

Why do chicks take pics in the middle of their ghetto street with their booty popped out? Classsssy.