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user banned 18 kids; Texas 1041 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MamaGriffin[13 Weeks]:</b>" Haha talk to DH? Omg that would be a mistake he gets so defensive over his mom and gets all mad like ... [snip!] ... ok wait a minute bud. I never said that. He refuses but this is a baby so he needs to step up and defend his wife you know? "</blockquote>




I'm still thrown off that SHE has a book.. Wtf lady. But i know what you mean about being told you can't feel anything... I had quickening about 2 weeks ago, and a few kicks ... Tiny bubbly feelings here and there now. My mil told me I was crazy. I'm like um... You haven't had a kid in 20 yrs, you don't remember

3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting MamaGriffin[13 Weeks]:" Okay so I totally need to vent. MIL issues. Me and my MIL have always gotten along. Ever since i got ... [snip!] ... shes over stepping and its not cool. Sorry. End vent. Had to get that out there..Husband wont hear it because its his mommy."



That is fcking ridiculous. Husband needs to man up, whether it's his mommy or not. It's time to stop breastfeeding..he's going to be a dad!!



And I am so sorry you're dealing with this. If it gets to be too much, just say something like "Well it's been nice talking to you, I have a lot of stuff I need to get done. Thanks for checking in." and simply stop responding. You definitely don't need that stress!

MamaGryffindor 2 kids; Bend, Oregon 1399 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting *Mega Mom*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MamaGriffin[13 Weeks]:</b>" Haha talk to DH? Omg that would ... [snip!] ... feelings here and there now. My mil told me I was crazy. I'm like um... You haven't had a kid in 20 yrs, you don't remember"


Me too! I dont understand why she has a book. She wasnt like this when i was pregnant with my son. Then again we werent close like we are now but still. Back off. My husband wont even read a pregnancy book haha



Yeah Its been 16 years since she had her daughter AND everyone is different she needs to back off.

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
4th Jan '13
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MamaGryffindor 2 kids; Bend, Oregon 1399 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting a s h l e y.:" That is fcking ridiculous. Husband needs to man up, whether it's his mommy or not. It's time to stop ... [snip!] ... a lot of stuff I need to get done. Thanks for checking in." and simply stop responding. You definitely don't need that stress!"


Thats what i was thinking about saying. Not really be rude but to the point.

AmyOrangeMama 4 kids; Idaho 1761 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting MamaGriffin[13 Weeks]:" Me too! I dont understand why she has a book. She wasnt like this when i was pregnant with my son. Then ... [snip!] ... read a pregnancy book haha Yeah Its been 16 years since she had her daughter AND everyone is different she needs to back off."


Seriosuly. Every woman is different! Jeez. From now on I would just keep my mouth shut around her and if she buts in just say thanks and let it roll right off your back. I once got in a debate with my MIL about how many weeks pregnant I was ( with my first). I ended up yelling at her in front of a bunch of people and later felt like a jack ass.

MamaGryffindor 2 kids; Bend, Oregon 1399 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting AmyOrangeMama:" Seriosuly. Every woman is different! Jeez. From now on I would just keep my mouth shut around her ... [snip!] ... weeks pregnant I was ( with my first). I ended up yelling at her in front of a bunch of people and later felt like a jack ass. "


Yeah i decided that if she asks how im doing ill just say "Fine, how are you"
She obviously doesnt need to know details if shes going to argue withe me.
MIL's I tell ya! ;)

AmyOrangeMama 4 kids; Idaho 1761 posts
4th Jan '13

Speaking of MILs.....
I just found out that my MIL has been telling people ( including my parents) that we didnt have enough money for christmas presents for our kids and that she bought extra to make sure the kids got a good christmas. I am LIVID. That is completely untrue! First of all, we provided a great xmas for our kids. 2nd, she told me she over bought and wanted to give us some extra gifts "from santa"... Which we declined because it was not needed... All this after we have told her time and time again that she will not out do us at christmas and shouldnt be giving our kids more gifts than we give. Thats not her damn place. Ugh, I am so beyond pissed at her..

Due May 10; TTC since May 2014; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Castlewood, Virginia 3406 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:</b>" Heh...I feel awful. Somehow it just clicked in my head that I know you outside of this thread. I am ... [snip!] ... ladies...we haven't told most of our family/friends though, so please don't mention the baby. http://facebook.com/ecurtsinger"</blockquote>




Holy cow! I didn't realize it was you either! And I didnt realize you were pregnant! Haha. I'm a dork! Congrats!! (again! Lol). I haven't told most of fb either. We can keep it a secret together! ;)

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
4th Jan '13
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♥Jessie♥ Due October 26 (boy); 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Idaho 6087 posts
status 4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Christen♥MFH:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting susanesque:</b>" That's how ours does too. Or maybe you could ... [snip!] ... we can leave school if it less than 90 min we are going to be gone. If anything, it would be worth it for him to ask."</blockquote>



See and he totally could of it wasn't for the fact that it is his first year in this school. He has already received two more personal days than he is allotted because of our wedding/honeymoon. Asking would be rude at this point and we want him to get a contract again next year because this is the school to be at in our area!

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
4th Jan '13

I wish Subway offered delivery like Pizza Hut does :( I'm on the verge of ordering a pizza (purely because I don't want to cook before I leave for work) but the only thing that actually sounds really f**king good...is Subway. But I don't wanna leave my house.

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
4th Jan '13

I wish Subway offered delivery like Pizza Hut does :( I'm on the verge of ordering a pizza (purely because I don't want to cook before I leave for work) but the only thing that actually sounds really f**king good...is Subway. But I don't wanna leave my house.

Chris's Mommy 1 child; Seaside, California 2618 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting MamaGriffin[13 Weeks]:" Okay so I totally need to vent. MIL issues. Me and my MIL have always gotten along. Ever since i got ... [snip!] ... shes over stepping and its not cool. Sorry. End vent. Had to get that out there..Husband wont hear it because its his mommy."


My mother gets on me every once in a while about what I have been eating, but she knows that right now I am eating anything that doesn't make me nauseous and sometimes that includes a little bit of junk food.

user banned 18 kids; Texas 1041 posts
4th Jan '13

PRAISE GOD!! The home health care company just called. They think they can get me set up with my pump possibly tonight or tomorrow! Relief is in sight!