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afantastic 2 kids; Dallas, Texas 588 posts
30th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Mega Mom*:</b>" This is off topic but I had to share before I burst! My ex husband, DS sperm donor... He's not in the ... [snip!] ... fit than the dumbass I married the first time. Anyway, I won't bore y'all with this... Just been a lot on my mind today."</blockquote>



Actually this is interesting to me. My sons dad doesn't pay any support, he is court ordered by the state of Tennessee to do so but... I dunno I guess since I live out of state nobody cares? I've tried filling out the paperwork online THREE times and never hear anything about it.



Anyway, I think in 5 years he has supposed to pay support he mailed me (2 years ago) about $1,800. And now that I have found a man I love and plan to marry and obviously having a child with, it really worries me that if I died my son would be taken away from someone who cares about him (SO) and his brother to be sent to his dad he has seen once since 2007. DS dad now has a felony record and seems to be in and out of jail (due to probation violations), totally NOT the ideal person for a child to randomly end up with.



I've often thought about just ASKING if he would sign his rights over. It's not like he is paying support or seeing him. I haven't communicated with him in almost a year. I dunno, I think about it though.

Bunni♥ +2 18 kids; 2 angel babies; Wyltk, PA, United States 1549 posts
30th Jun '13

My husband took some pics of me today :)



This one is my favorite!
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afantastic 2 kids; Dallas, Texas 588 posts
30th Jun '13

Very cute!! Your husband has a really good eye! I wouldn't be paying for newborn pictures if I was you. Very cute. Looks like you had fun too :-)

BakingNumber3 2 kids; Texas 1672 posts
30th Jun '13

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ignore the dirty mirror sorry...




here tonight at now 37 wks 5 days...
does it look like I have dropped??
I really hope I don't go overdue, this hip, pelvic pain is hurting me a lot and it burns to even walk. And this of and on contractions are driving me nuts they don't progress.
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Bunni♥ +2 18 kids; 2 angel babies; Wyltk, PA, United States 1549 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting afantastic (38wks):" Very cute!! Your husband has a really good eye! I wouldn't be paying for newborn pictures if I was you. Very cute. Looks like yo, u had fun too :-)"


Thank you! He def wants to do newborn pics. It was fun

susanesque 2 kids; Georgia 8425 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting *Mega Mom*:" This is off topic but I had to share before I burst! My ex husband, DS sperm donor... He's not in the ... [snip!] ... fit than the dumbass I married the first time. Anyway, I won't bore y'all with this... Just been a lot on my mind today."



Yay! Good luck! :)

susanesque 2 kids; Georgia 8425 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting afantastic (38wks):" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Mega Mom*:</b>" This is off topic but I had to share before ... [snip!] ... like he is paying support or seeing him. I haven't communicated with him in almost a year. I dunno, I think about it though."


I really think there ought to be some sort of clause where if they don't make contact or pay child support within a certain time frame (unless they have a good reason, like serious illness) that they are automatically stripped of their rights. It just doesn't make sense to me that someone who hasn't seen or supported a kid a day in their life can suddenly just walk in and start causing problems. :? The whole custody system is just screwy if you ask me, and I don't even deal with it directly. I am close to a lot of people who do and it frustrates me the stuff they have to go through.

susanesque 2 kids; Georgia 8425 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting Bunni♥ 35wks!:" My husband took some pics of me today :) This one is my favorite! "


Cute! I like the first one. :)

susanesque 2 kids; Georgia 8425 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting Bunni♥ 35wks!:" Thank you! He def wants to do newborn pics. It was fun"


I can't wait to take newborn pictures. I am no photographer, but I am going to have so much fun with it. My skills are way past where they were when DD was born, so maybe I can turn out something cute. :)

Chris's Mommy 1 child; Seaside, California 2618 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting afantastic (38wks):" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Mega Mom*:</b>" This is off topic but I had to share before ... [snip!] ... like he is paying support or seeing him. I haven't communicated with him in almost a year. I dunno, I think about it though."


Last July my brother started the paperwork to adopt his wife's first son. In Ohio you have to be married at least a year before you can file paperwork, so my brother and her got married shortly after their youngest was born in. After they turned in the paperwork I think their court date was set for like 2 months later. My nephew's biological father didn't contest, but he did drag his feet getting his set of paperwork turned in. He didn't even show up to the court date. I think because he didn't show up at the court date they still had to wait like 90 days until it was truly official. Overall things went pretty smoothly but it did cost them some money.



I never understood why Ben's biological father dragged his feet so much. He only met Ben once when he was like 3 months old and he supposedly tells all of his friends and family that he only has 2 kids (both of which belong to his current girlfriend) and he owes at least 2K in late child support. Oh well at least he has no rights to Ben now, so my family and her family are very excited.

Chris's Mommy 1 child; Seaside, California 2618 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting Bunni♥ 35wks!:" My husband took some pics of me today :) This one is my favorite! "


Those are wonderful pictures

user banned 18 kids; Texas 1041 posts
1st Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting afantastic (38wks):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Mega Mom*:</b>" This is off topic but I had to share before ... [snip!] ... like he is paying support or seeing him. I haven't communicated with him in almost a year. I dunno, I think about it though."</blockquote>




This is almost exactly my situation and fear. I have asked him to sign over his rights, and he told me to f*** off. He said it was only to piss me off... What a gentleman :/



I know that in order for the AG to enforce the support/ push jail tune, you have to report it every 30 days (1st of every month). They can intercept his taxes and garnish his wages. Unfortunately with my ex, he's dealing drugs, so no money on the books = no taxes or wage garnishment :(



I hope your situation is better than mine. Idk what would happen if my autistic 5 yr old ended up with a drug dealer because my DH had no legal rights :'(

user banned 18 kids; Texas 1041 posts
1st Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting susanesque:</b>" I really think there ought to be some sort of clause where if they don't make contact or pay child ... [snip!] ... don't even deal with it directly. I am close to a lot of people who do and it frustrates me the stuff they have to go through."</blockquote>



Sadly there are provisions like that and they don't work. After 6 months of no contact you can get it by default, BUT if they pay even one cent in child support the 6 mo starts over... And with the current rules of getting a court date for child support after no payment for 120 days.... It's nearly impossible for that to happen. He pays like $95 every 119 days or something like that. I told him if waive all back child support and drop all charges if he'd sign over his rights... And he won't. Idk why... He hasn't seen my son since he was 1. He lives in SC and Im in Texas... Wish he'd just give up!

Sheena+3 35 kids; Soddy-Daisy, Tennessee 4793 posts
1st Jul '13

Hey ladies! I'm popping in once again! LOL. Congrats on all the cute little babies being born!



I had Abriana Gail (Abby) on 6/29 at 4:12 pm. She weighed 8lbs 10oz and is 19 3/4 inches long! My family is in love.



This link should send you to some cuteness!
http://www.mom365.com/newbornportraits/babydetail.aspx?birthId=90b893e0-0d06-4041-9800-86ece8c40075&babyId=6d07664d-494e-4819-b7f1-ddaef40347d5

Ⓢ℘id℮яMαℕ 3 kids; Wet Dreams, XD, United States 5286 posts
1st Jul '13

Just caught up in here again. You ladies are getting so close!



The twins are doing fabulous. We had Silas sleep here last night for the first time in a week since he was staying at my dad's house while we were in the hospital and such. He did pretty well but he does have his moments during the day where he tries to slap the babies.



MIL is STILL here. :roll: She got into town the same night I was discharged so we had maybe 4 hours at home before she came. She's been a nightmare and a half. Not helpful whatsoever. If anything, she makes taking care of my kids harder for me. Not only am I keeping up with 2 babies and a toddler, but also keeping the house clean and keeping up on cleaning bottles (I pump and feed). She expects me to cook 3 meals a day and keep her entertained. I thought she was leaving on the 5th but I just checked and it's the 9th so that was pretty disappointing lol.



Toying with the idea of taking the kids and staying at my dad's until she leaves. I literally can't take her anymore. DH won't speak up and wants me to go off on her so he doesn't have to confront her.



This just isn't what I had in mind for the first two weeks with my babies. :?



On a more positive note:
Cody & Owen!
*poof*