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Mr's&Family* 2 kids; Arizona 3697 posts
2nd Dec '12

I would go. But write out a contract!

Sweet lullaby Dearborn Heights, Michigan 30436 posts
2nd Dec '12

Yeah I would go. I may of missed it but have you met him in person??

V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
2nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet lullaby:</b>" Yeah I would go. I may of missed it but have you met him in person??"</blockquote>




Yes I have known him for 7 years. He's my ex's moms friend who has always take a liking to me and helped me whenever I needed it.

Sweet lullaby Dearborn Heights, Michigan 30436 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting V & E's Mom! [26 weeks]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet lullaby:</b>" Yeah I would go. I may of missed it but ... [snip!] ... I have known him for 7 years. He's my ex's moms friend who has always take a liking to me and helped me whenever I needed it."


Then Ya I would suggest you go. I had a chance like this but I didn't have the balls to move. Good luck

V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
2nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet lullaby:</b>" Then Ya I would suggest you go. I had a chance like this but I didn't have the balls to move. Good luck"</blockquote>




I have 1 month to decide... I'm kinda scared.. A huge chane to come so quickly.

Sweet lullaby Dearborn Heights, Michigan 30436 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting V & E's Mom! [26 weeks]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet lullaby:</b>" Then Ya I would suggest you go. I had ... [snip!] ... to move. Good luck"</blockquote> I have 1 month to decide... I'm kinda scared.. A huge chane to come so quickly."


I agreee

Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 835 posts
2nd Dec '12

I'd say go for it.
It will be scary, but I promise you, once you're comfortable in a new place and don't have your BD hanging bullshit over your head you will be so happy and more refreshed.
Your daughters will benefit greatly, even if your BD decides he can't be bothered to see them.
You will have the opportunity to meet some new friends and gain full control of your life :)



But yes, a contract would be necessary.