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kind of sucks.. LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1624 posts
2nd Dec '12

I had a miscarriage about a month ago. I want to start ttc again. Like now (got the drs OK). My fiance wants to wait at least 6 months... I'm not by any means trying to replace the one I lost. We were ttc before the miscarriage and I would like to keep trying... maybe that's wrong? Idk.. but it just kind of sucks that he wants to wait at least 6 months... he has c*m inside of me 3 times. He pulls out now. Idk.. maybe I'm wrong.. but 6 months seems like such a long time..

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
2nd Dec '12

You shouldn't pressure him into getting you pregnant if he doesn't feel ready so yes, I'd say you are wrong.

Sheri an aspiring hippie 19 kids; Nevada 3091 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" I had a miscarriage about a month ago. I want to start ttc again. Like now (got the drs OK). My fiance ... [snip!] ... months... he has c*m inside of me 3 times. He pulls out now. Idk.. maybe I'm wrong.. but 6 months seems like such a long time.."


just because you are emotionally ready to start trying again does not mean that he is. It might still be something that is affecting him. It has only been a month. Respect your partner and take this time to get yourself in the best shape and health possible so that when you do get prego again you have all of your ducks in a row. Dont pressure him and im sure he will come around

LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1624 posts
2nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" You shouldn't pressure him into getting you pregnant if he doesn't feel ready so yes, I'd say you are wrong."</blockquote>




I'm not pressuring him in any way. He came inside me before we even talked about when we wanted to start ttc again. We talk about it once and a while but I never get mad or try to pressure him in any way. I tell him I would like to start trying again but if he isn't ready I understand completely.
6 months just seems like a long time.