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Sign from above? Brooke Cumberland TTC since Oct 2013; 1 child; Wisconsin 420 posts
2nd Dec '12

Okay, so I don't know if anyone else believes in stuff like this, but all too often I recognize signs that seem to just fit perfectly into my life somehow. Like when all your friends are getting married around the same time, or buying a house, or getting pregnant. I have had numerous people get pregnant within the last couple months, but two of those friends just lost their babies and it scares me to death. Sometimes when my DH and I watch tv, there are pregnant characters in all of our shows and I'm like "awww it's a sign!" with a cheesy smile - even though it's so common, i like to think its a good sign. A fb friend of mine just lost her baby at 23 weeks and now one of my good fb friends is having surgery to remove her 6 week old baby (she found out really early) because it stopped growing and is growing in the wrong spot (ectopic I think). My heart breaks for my friends and I feel so sad for them. It's hard to get excited about TTC when these bad things happen. So then sometimes I think, maybe it's a sign we shouldn't be? And then over course I over-analyze it all. My house keeper and babysitter both are pregnant now and I would love to be pregnant with them too - but I get so nervous of baby things happening. (as I'm sure all mom's do...)

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
2nd Dec '12

Yeahhh, you're TOTALLY over thinking things.

lynnsaymarie 1 child; 1 angel baby; Buffalo, New York 2511 posts
status 2nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:</b>" Yeahhh, you're TOTALLY over thinking things."</blockquote>




This.



Also its on your mind so its going to seem like iys EVERYWHERE. Good example...you get a new car and suddenly everyone is driving that car.

Jessica + 2 34 kids; Texas 7364 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:" Yeahhh, you're TOTALLY over thinking things."

!!! I agree

Brooke Cumberland TTC since Oct 2013; 1 child; Wisconsin 420 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:" Yeahhh, you're TOTALLY over thinking things."


i figured. i just don't know how to get it off my mind.

Brooke Cumberland TTC since Oct 2013; 1 child; Wisconsin 420 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting Lynnsay B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:</b>" Yeahhh, you're TOTALLY over thinking ... [snip!] ... your mind so its going to seem like iys EVERYWHERE. Good example...you get a new car and suddenly everyone is driving that car."


yeah, good point!

*Ayden's Mommy* Due October 2; 2 kids; Bagdad, AZ, United States 222 posts
2nd Dec '12

I can see where you are coming from. I was TTC for 2 years and gave up. Then in May and June all my friends were getting pregnant. I instantly felt jealous and was wondering if I would even have the chance again. Then on June 14th I found out I was pregnant too!!. Sadly not long after that my two dearest friends lost their babies. One at 8 weeks and another at 11 weeks, and my brothers girlfriend lost their baby at 6 weeks. I was heartbroken for them and terrified for me. I started wondering if that was why I had finally gotten pregnant again, I just wasnt meant to have another child and I was going to loose my baby too. Thankfully I am now 30 weeks and baby boy is doing great. Of course you worry about things, and its not uncommon to notice things that relate to you. anyways. Best of luck to you TTC!!! Lots of baby dust

Brooke Cumberland TTC since Oct 2013; 1 child; Wisconsin 420 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting *Ayden's Mommy*:" I can see where you are coming from. I was TTC for 2 years and gave up. Then in May and June all my friends ... [snip!] ... about things, and its not uncommon to notice things that relate to you. anyways. Best of luck to you TTC!!! Lots of baby dust"


Glad I'm not the only one! Thank you!