Reply
Meagan 2 kids; Oregon 664 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting -Alisa- MaMa of 3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting meggo.:</b>" Awww dang...I was hoping you wouldnt say that ... [snip!] ... too :cry: I want a girl so bad!"</blockquote> Awe I'm sorry. Ya I just feel boy. But I hope I'm wrong. Good luck!!!!!"


Thanks! Unfortunately I'm feeling that way now too. I'll find out for sure soon enough.

Mama to Lexi & Madie 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Tennessee 1783 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting meggo.:" Awww dang...I was hoping you wouldnt say that lol but thats what it looks like to me too :cry: I want a girl so bad!"

Aww hun I hope you get your girl..if it makes ya feel better, I could have SWORN this was a BOY but nope my mommy vibes were way off! lol its definitely a GIRL! So dont loose hope too soon :) Your little one COULD very well be a baby girl!

Meagan 2 kids; Oregon 664 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting Mama to Lexi & Kinsley:" Aww hun I hope you get your girl..if it makes ya feel better, I could have SWORN this was a BOY but nope ... [snip!] ... vibes were way off! lol its definitely a GIRL! So dont loose hope too soon :) Your little one COULD very well be a baby girl!"


Thank you :) I sure hope so. This whole time up till now I've felt so strongly that it is even DH has so you never know!

Mama to Lexi & Madie 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Tennessee 1783 posts
4th Jan '13

Ladies, today is a really bad day for my in-laws. As you all know, my sil is due 1 month after me and we saw the baby at 8 weeks and everything was great with the size and heartbeat. Well today was her first doc appointment with a obgyn and she would be 12 weeks and some odd days..she lost the baby. I feel terrible! No matter how big of a bitch she was about the whole jealousy thing..I would never have wanted it to end her pregnancy. The only things we got her for christmas were pregnancy clothes and things that were for her new baby. I feel so blessed that my little girl is healthy and happy but on the other hand I dont know if i can help her in anyway greive, while being pregnant. I would feel bad going over there to console her during this time and she hate me for getting the healthy baby. I am not sure what to do here ladies. Any advice? btw we see them every weekend. she lives a few miles down the road.

-Alisa- MaMa of 3 3 kids; California 2877 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to Lexi & Kinsley:</b>" Ladies, today is a really bad day for my in-laws. As you all know, my sil is due 1 month after me and ... [snip!] ... baby. I am not sure what to do here ladies. Any advice? btw we see them every weekend. she lives a few miles down the road."</blockquote>




I'd send a card and ur condolences and let her know ur there if she needs and then keep ur distance. She will probably be resentful and it will hurt u. When she is ready ull be there. That is aweful. When did it stop growing

Mama to Lexi & Madie 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Tennessee 1783 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting -Alisa- MaMa of 3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to Lexi & Kinsley:</b>" Ladies, today is a really bad day ... [snip!] ... She will probably be resentful and it will hurt u. When she is ready ull be there. That is aweful. When did it stop growing"

Im not sure of the details as of now, she just went to the doc a little bit ago. Im not sure if they will make her deliver the baby or do another DNC (she had a m/c last year that she had a DNC for) I just feel the worst for her.. I do think I should keep my distance though like you said I dont want to cause any more grief for her.

Meagan 2 kids; Oregon 664 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting Mama to Lexi & Kinsley:" Ladies, today is a really bad day for my in-laws. As you all know, my sil is due 1 month after me and ... [snip!] ... baby. I am not sure what to do here ladies. Any advice? btw we see them every weekend. she lives a few miles down the road."


Im so sorry :( I agree with Alisa though best thing to do would be to keep some distance but let her know your there if she needs anything at all.

-Alisa- MaMa of 3 3 kids; California 2877 posts
4th Jan '13

Poor thing. I'm so relieved I feel him kick every hr now its much more comforting.

queso +2 (40!!!) 2 kids; Montana 9467 posts
4th Jan '13

Baby is refusing to kick noticably. I think I've felt it twice today but seriously, it was so faint I can't even be sure it was a baby kick. Makes me sad. I know its probably just sleeping a bunch but I would love it to give me a couple good non deniable kicks just to ease my worry.

Mama to Lexi & Madie 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Tennessee 1783 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting queso +2curdles(17):" Baby is refusing to kick noticably. I think I've felt it twice today but seriously, it was so faint I ... [snip!] ... know its probably just sleeping a bunch but I would love it to give me a couple good non deniable kicks just to ease my worry."

it will happen when you least expect it. Kinsley like to kick so hard i think im having a shooting pain and nope, its her.

Mama to Lexi & Madie 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Tennessee 1783 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting -Alisa- MaMa of 3:" Poor thing. I'm so relieved I feel him kick every hr now its much more comforting."

i am right there with ya. I am so thankful that Kinsley is very active at this stage :)

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3473 posts
4th Jan '13

Glad it wasn't ur water leaking. I feel those gushes time to time too. Sorry bout ur sil. I'd keep away for awhile. Friends brother lost his kid to SIDS around time I was having my 2nd. He worked at the hospital but I never met him before. They had him working delivering meals on the maternity floor. He walked n I thought (he's good looking like hubby's friend) found out next day who he was :( I cried told him how sorry I was. I skipped the baby's funeral so I wouldn't upset him n his girl but he delivered my dinners... How twisted. our babies were a week apart. They came to our 2nds 1st bday. He was ok she was a wreck though. every time I saw her I wanted to cry. Still do. So I avoid them.

Mama to Lexi & Madie 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Tennessee 1783 posts
4th Jan '13

Update on SIL, the doctor said it was a chromosonal issue and that the baby was only measuring 9weeks 5days and had no heart beat. She should have been around 12 weeks ish so they think she was on the verge of miscarring on her own so they gave her some meds to help the process along. She was spotting a little last night and this morning but stopped right before she went in so that was proably the start of the process. My MIL said shes not taking it too well. I just hope this doesnt cause her to go into a down-ward spiral like last time :( They did tell her there should be no reason for her not to carry to full term in the future and it was nothing to do with her or her body just the baby had some genetic issues.

-Alisa- MaMa of 3 3 kids; California 2877 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting Mama to Lexi & Kinsley:" Update on SIL, the doctor said it was a chromosonal issue and that the baby was only measuring 9weeks ... [snip!] ... not to carry to full term in the future and it was nothing to do with her or her body just the baby had some genetic issues."


that is so sad, i hope that she gets preg fast and has a healthy baby she can carry to term. Our bodies know when something is wrong with the baby. Im so sorry.




Queso you will feel baby soon! I was telling my husband when i hit 18 weeks, i wonder how long it will be until the girls can feel the baby kicking and asked him if he remember when sally started kicking hard enough for him to feel. He was like Oh its way to soon for that. The very next day BOOM kicking started and its been stronger by the day and often. I love it and its a huge relief to know he is alive and well. I am wondering how big he is going to be measuring monday! AND THAT HE IS STILL A HE lol. can't wait

queso +2 (40!!!) 2 kids; Montana 9467 posts
4th Jan '13

I guess I haven't talked much in here. I feel baby every day lol That's why not feeling it today bothers me. I've been feeling it for about 2 ish weeks... started at 14 weeks 6 days. I've gotten pretty strong kicks too. So a day of not having much if anything, bugs me.