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tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29537 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting ladykickboxer23:" Abortion is very dangerous actually, if you're not sure you want to be a mother, I wish you would look ... [snip!] ... want the gift of a child, but are not able to have it. You can use your less than optimal circumstance to bless someone else."


'da fuq? Have you had a c-section?

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting ladykickboxer23:" I'm a nurse, you don't have to explain to me any differences in abortion and childbirth."


Then you might want to do some research before saying that abortion is really dangerous.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 57425 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ladykickboxer23:</b>" I'm a nurse, you don't have to explain to me any differences in abortion and childbirth."</blockquote>




Well someone needs to explain the difference between a 7 week old fetus and a 2 year old unwanted system baby. Someone needs to explain a lot of things to you.

♡Makeup Addiction♡ 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Milwaukee, WI, United States 4544 posts
3rd Dec '12

Please stick to the article i provide in this d&d topic. It's about a women aborting at home with pills she bought online from India at 39weeks gestation.

user banned (girl); TTC since May 2008; Pounding Mill, VA, United States 3612 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting Mrs.DamonSalvatore:" Here's the article i came across. What are your thoughts. Please respect eachother in this d&d topic. http://m.xojane.com/issues/sarah-catt-late-term-abortion"


20 weeks.

Dutchmaster Due October 15; 2 kids; Providence, RI, United States 11258 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting tinana +2:" 'da fuq? Have you had a c-section?"


Obviously not, since they're allegedly painless and risk-free according to this "nurse".

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
3rd Dec '12

I PERSONALLY wouldn't abort past the first trimester.
As a general rule though, I think abortions should be done before viability.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
3rd Dec '12

Honestly, it's sad to think about having an abortion past 20 weeks. (elective)



BUT, to me, if a woman is willing to abort her baby at 37,38,39,40 weeks, she is OBVIOUSLY not in the right frame of mind to care for that child anyways. ( Once again elective).

((-We Did It!-)) 1 child; 1 angel baby; Iowa 659 posts
3rd Dec '12

I've often wondered.. what if the father of the baby wanted to have the child and the mother would have rather went through with abortion. Where are his rights? I'm sure that has happened somewhere.



Back to topic.. I don't think they should be done after first trimester if they have to be done at all.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 57425 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.DamonSalvatore:</b>" Please stick to the article i provide in this d&d topic. It's about a women aborting at home with pills she bought online from India at 39weeks gestation."</blockquote>




Obviously that's too late if she had to buy black market pills online, this isn't much on a debate. If its illegal, it's too late,

ladykickboxer23 Due May 26; 1 child; Arkansas 19 posts
3rd Dec '12

And when did I say totally pain free?? Yeah of course there's going to be some pain in recovery after an abdominal surgery.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 57425 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:</b>" Honestly, it's sad to think about having an abortion past 20 weeks. (elective) BUT, to me, if a woman ... [snip!] ... at 37,38,39,40 weeks, she is OBVIOUSLY not in the right frame of mind to care for that child anyways. ( Once again elective)."</blockquote>
Excellent point, I feel terrible for this lady, she must have been so desperate.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Abortion is safer than childbirth. Adoption is hard. I wish people would realize that adoption isnt ... [snip!] ... all you care about is the baby and the baby being blessing for someone else? And c section to avoid pain? Psh... ahaha.. "


You don't think some women who have chosen to abort haven't been affected mentally? I know a couple ladies who chose to abort because they believed it was the best decision for them at the time who suffer greatly because of it.

♥Mrs.Garcia 18 kids; Houston, Texas 13802 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ladykickboxer23:</b>" I'm a nurse, you don't have to explain to me any differences in abortion and childbirth."</blockquote>



your a nurse not a doctor. csections are NOT pain free. any NURSE would know that. As for adpotion, there are millions of children in the system now. Lets add more.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 57425 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ladykickboxer23:</b>" And when did I say totally pain free?? Yeah of course there's going to be some pain in recovery after an abdominal surgery."</blockquote>




Interesting, abortions are almost pain free.