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Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
4th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" You can't take the boys and stay with family? I'm sory hun. That has to suck. I hope you can get out soon. Can anyone give you a small loan? Or can you get a small job and save?"</blockquote>




I stayed with my grandparents for several days, but they cannot handle the boys and made that clear.. I would go with the job, but I only have that single week to do this. My sister works A LOT and we had this planned in advance.. I don't want to wait another year especially given the circumstances.. If I get lucky enough to get a job I would have to work every day, nonstop to get anywhere. I have had a couple interviews, but no news good or bad

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, New York 55081 posts
4th Dec '12
Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" You can't take the boys and stay with ... [snip!] ... to get a job I would have to work every day, nonstop to get anywhere. I have had a couple interviews, but no news good or bad"



I meant get a job so that you can save money and get away from husband?

can you go to a shelter? They can help you get on your feet and you can keep the kids with you. It would be only for a short time

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
4th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ღ.ღ.ღ:</b>" Is he holding it over your head, that you can't take the kids without a job? Could you start putting ... [snip!] ... putting a little bit away and then get out of there and get a job once your with family? I'm sorry you have to deal with this."</blockquote>



I really have NOTHING to support them with. He could easily have the parenting agreement changed so that he has sole custody. He makes $1400/bi weekly. i have nil, not even local family who could help or friends. That was threatened by his lawyer. I don't have a lawyer, the only ones who provide services on special conditions here only will do so if you are under criminal charges or in severe adverse conditions-apparently that's not my case. I should have never gotten married. Period.

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
4th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" I meant get a job so that you can save money and get away from husband? can you go to a shelter? ... [snip!] ... you go to a shelter? They can help you get on your feet and you can keep the kids with you. It would be only for a short time"</blockquote>



I haven't had any luck in the job department. I checked and there nothing. There's a huge 2 year wait list for housing assistance of any kind. I swear it's not my pride, there's just nothing here worth shit! It's a small town. I'm stuck until I get work

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, New York 55081 posts
4th Dec '12
Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" I meant get a job so that you can save ... [snip!] ... of any kind. I swear it's not my pride, there's just nothing here worth shit! It's a small town. I'm stuck until I get work"



You can't go to another family members?

Sorry if I seem naggy. I just see all your posts about his abuse and it breaks my heart

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
4th Dec '12
Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ღ.ღ.ღ:</b>" Is he holding it over your head, ... [snip!] ... criminal charges or in severe adverse conditions-apparently that's not my case. I should have never gotten married. Period."


:(

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
4th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" You can't go to another family members? Sorry if I seem naggy. I just see all your posts about his abuse and it breaks my heart"</blockquote>




Nobody can help :( you're fine to ask. I think he's trying to get me to hit him. He keeps laughing and telling me to just do it. I know better, he would press charges. Thus, I would look like shit and not him

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
4th Dec '12

Does anyone need a wedding gown? Or a youth hunting bow? Or a horse with all the fixings? Having a hard time selling all the big stuff :(