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Would it bother you? Proginoskes II 3 kids; North Carolina 1295 posts
4th Dec '12

If one of your boyfriend's ex-girlfrends called, and then hung up when you answered?
What if your boyfriend had a history of doing things that made you uncomfortable, that involved this woman, such as phone calls between 1-3 am, and flirty/borderline sexual texts?
I want an outsider's opinion, I'm trying to be logical and not overreact.
ETA: Post and run, I have to cook dinner.

user banned 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
4th Dec '12

I'd be suspicious and do some detective work. lol

babyberhow 1 child; Minnesota 329 posts
4th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" I'd be suspicious and do some detective work. lol"</blockquote>



This! Im in the same boat hum, PM me if u wanna talk

E'M Shikari Due March 10; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
4th Dec '12

I'd definitely be suspicious...

MiddayHavoc 1 child; Louisiana 740 posts
4th Dec '12

I would def ask him why she is calling. I'm not a jealous person and I wouldn't put up with that.

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60866 posts
status 4th Dec '12

Yes, it would bother me. I'd find it very disrespectful.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
4th Dec '12

I would have dumped at the first sight of borderline sexting and 1-3am phone calls. That shit isn't exceptable in my book. So I wouldn't even be around long enough for her to hang up on.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
4th Dec '12

I would ask my boyfriend about it.

Kimber-lily Due September 27; 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
4th Dec '12

I'd call her back and ask what's up.

[mama♥buggs] 34 kids; Oklahoma 1358 posts
4th Dec '12

If youre suspicious then something isnt right...follow your instinct but dont go searching for evidence that just makes it worse IMO either talk it out with him or leave and dont look back

marsupialjoe TTC since Jun 2003; 3 kids; Fort St John, British Columbia 454 posts
4th Dec '12

My fiance talks to exes all the time, and so do I, because we are secure in our relationship and are in love and are not with those people for a reason.



HOWEVER



I'd be suspicious of this one. Why are they hiding (hanging up when it's you who answers)? Sexting is NOT okay.



I guess the difference is, if they can't be open and up front about their friendship, it seems like something sneaky is going on..

JGordon2007 Due May 14; Olympia, Washington 12 posts
4th Dec '12

I would not take that he has no reason to be talking to her and the texts and hanging up on you is way over the acceptable line. Good luck girl.

MILF !! 2 kids; Connecticut 3946 posts
4th Dec '12
Quoting lilredsmurfy:" My fiance talks to exes all the time, and so do I, because we are secure in our relationship and are ... [snip!] ... the difference is, if they can't be open and up front about their friendship, it seems like something sneaky is going on.."


I 100% agree with this!

Third Time Mommy 19 kids; Michigan 406 posts
4th Dec '12

I would have called her back. If whatever they're doing/have done makes you uncomfortable, then it shouldn't be going on at all. She doesn't need to call him at all and the same for him.

Jeni Krogman Due February 3; Melvin, Iowa 89 posts
4th Dec '12

I would be suspicious as well.. Ex's are ex's for a reason. Casually speaking when running into them is one thing but late night calls and texts are not right.. I would flat out tell your bf how disrespectful he is being to you and your relationship. I would also call the ex and tell her the same. GL!