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Best friends newb. .legendTAYry. 1 child; Hawaii 41570 posts
4th Dec '12

One Of my dearest friends had her baby two weeks ago.



I messages her when she had her to let me know when she is ready for visitors because I remember how overwhelming it is post baby and having a bazillion visitors. Aria, the baby is two weeks old. I'm gonna go hang out in about an hour. How long is too long to hang out? I feel like I should know this since I have a two year old. I don't want to overwhelm her so if the child is freaking out I will leave and not be overbearing. I just want to help her since I know the baby is also not sleeping at night.



I sound silly. But oh well!

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
4th Dec '12

1-2 hours, would be good. Unless she asks for you to stay longer.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20149 posts
status 4th Dec '12

I would follow her lead.

May♥ 1 child; Texas 9174 posts
4th Dec '12

Well since it is your BEST friend I'd stay until she drops a hint to leave. Lol.

JeNnAs MoMoM 2 kids; Pennsylvania 3090 posts
4th Dec '12

I would spend the night. :)

.legendTAYry. 1 child; Hawaii 41570 posts
4th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting May ♥:</b>" Well since it is your BEST friend I'd stay until she drops a hint to leave. Lol."</blockquote>




Thanks everyone. I haven't seen her since she gave birth.



And yes. She's my go to girl. Been there for me since foreva.

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
4th Dec '12
Quoting JeNnAs MoMoM:" I would spend the night. :)"


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Haha, if my best friend had a baby she would have to push me out the front door.

K&T Alberta 272 posts
4th Dec '12
Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].
user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
4th Dec '12

This is your very best friend? I would just go with the flow. lol



Anyone else I'd spend an hour and a half.. tops.

MamaCass{+JOE} 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Pennsylvania 42355 posts
4th Dec '12

I agree with following her lead, and if she seems tired or something then I would call it a night. Maybe offer some help while you're there (do some dishes, etc.).

.legendTAYry. 1 child; Hawaii 41570 posts
4th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
4th Dec '12
Quoting .tay.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].