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    • No it does not -- Votes: 59
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If you like oral sex... *D&D *read it all first* *short* Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
5th Dec '12

If a girl likes oral sex does it make her a lesbian? Cause that is what lesbians do





This is stemming from a conversation with a friend of mine. She posits that if a guy likes to recieve anal sex, that makes him gay

So I countered with, if a girl likes to be eaten out, does that make her gay? Of course my friend says it doesn't.

But what's good for the goose is good for the gander.


and to add bj's to it. Gay guys give BJ's... so if a guy like bj's, then he must be gay


The big question is Does what a person like in bed determine their sexual orientation?

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16901 posts
5th Dec '12

to me that makes no sense at all lol i get what your saying, but i dont get how someone would think it makes you gay

MOMBiE; Chloe's Mama~ 1 child; Spencer, Massachusetts 11831 posts
5th Dec '12

dafuq did I just read?

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10779 posts
5th Dec '12

No, how you get your rocks off doesn't determine your orientation.

I like watch girl on girl porn, but I am not gay. :)

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" If a girl likes oral sex does it make her a lesbian? Cause that is what lesbians do This is ... [snip!] ... guy like bj's, then he must be gay The big question is Does what a person like in bed determine their sexual orientation?"



LOL... no. Some people just like to experiment more than some. Some do things for their partner that they might like.



I dated a guy once who loved being f**king in the ass with my d***o, and he definitely wasn't gay. I LOVE oral sex, but am not a lesbian.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
5th Dec '12

Not at all. Sex isn't the only part of a relationship. And men do have something in their anus I think that can get them off. Idk exact terms for
It haha it's not just in gay men.

JΔS Georgia 74375 posts
5th Dec '12

Absolutely not. I think more guys would admit that they like some sort of anal stimulation if they didn't fear being labeled as gay or "gross". Its normal and natural for them to like it. It doesn't determine their sexual orientation. No acts in the bedroom does.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30556 posts
5th Dec '12

I don't think so. What makes your sexual orientation is what gender you prefer to be with or maybe even both. Just because someone likes something in the bedroom doesn't make them some other orientation, maybe it just feels good to them so they do it. Doesn't make them gay.

Renegade♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indian Rocks Beach, FL, United States 5421 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting MOMBiE; Chloe's Mama~:" dafuq did I just read?"


right?

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30556 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting loser mom:" No, how you get your rocks off doesn't determine your orientation. I like watch girl on girl porn, but I am not gay. :)"


Seriously, girl on girl porn is wayy better lol.

MOMBiE; Chloe's Mama~ 1 child; Spencer, Massachusetts 11831 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" Seriously, girl on girl porn is wayy better lol."


gay porn is pretty hot too IMO

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
5th Dec '12

So because they like to receive oral sex your logic is that they must be gay? Umm yeah no! Only if they liked to give oral sex would they be called gay.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26993 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" If a girl likes oral sex does it make her a lesbian? Cause that is what lesbians do This is ... [snip!] ... guy like bj's, then he must be gay The big question is Does what a person like in bed determine their sexual orientation?"


Um, no it doesnt matter it all. I messed with SO's prostate... he's not gay. LOL

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting 1st1ontheway:" So because they like to receive oral sex your logic is that they must be gay? Umm yeah no! Only if they liked to give oral sex would they be called gay."


What if a person liked to give oral sex but wasn't gay? Why does the act determine sexual preference

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting MOMBiE; Chloe's Mama~:" gay porn is pretty hot too IMO "



I love watching a guy blow another guy :oops: