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Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16080 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting VERONICA. MOM OF 6:" Hold up...So 1 not with you but yours a son 2 you claim, not yours though step daughters 1 baby with ... [snip!] ... daughters 1 baby with you 1 o old son and you are expecting Total to be 5 ...........WTF?!? Wow ...now I am really confused."


How did this go from 2 with one on the way to 5??

ash*leigh Due May 16; Augusta, Georgia 221 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" I didn't see anywhere where you said why he was taken or why you havent gotten him back yet."


She said she was young and was using at the time (as in drugs). That is why she lost him.

nikkigoodbear 2 kids; Seattle, Washington 123 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting VERONICA. MOM OF 6:" Hold up...So 1 not with you but yours a son 2 you claim, not yours though step daughters 1 baby with ... [snip!] ... daughters 1 baby with you 1 o old son and you are expecting Total to be 5 ...........WTF?!? Wow ...now I am really confused."


no i have a 1 month old son, one on the way, and the EX fiance kids which were my step kids and then my oldest who i don't have custody of. that don't = 5 becuase me and him are no longer together there for it's just me and my 1 month old now

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16080 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" his dad has full custody of him now and he is happy being with his dad i don't want to ruin his life i still see him and long as he is happy and healthy so am i"


So what you're saying is it would be normal if I divorced DH and he won custody of my daughter, I shouldn't acknowledge her anymore?

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16080 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" I didn't see anywhere where you said why he was taken or why you havent gotten him back yet."


She was using drugs. Page 3 or so.

nikkigoodbear 2 kids; Seattle, Washington 123 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" How did this go from 2 with one on the way to 5??"

have any of you ben reading or are you adding shit go look at my past post then you will no

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16080 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" no i have a 1 month old son, one on the way, and the EX fiance kids which were my step kids and then ... [snip!] ... i don't have custody of. that don't = 5 becuase me and him are no longer together there for it's just me and my 1 month old now"


Lawdy.... And hopefully your body can tolerate this pregnancy...

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16080 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" have any of you ben reading or are you adding shit go look at my past post then you will no"


Jesus christ I'm catching up. I had to go take care of my kid for a few minutes.

ash*leigh Due May 16; Augusta, Georgia 221 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" So what you're saying is it would be normal if I divorced DH and he won custody of my daughter, I shouldn't acknowledge her anymore?"

Even if she would have acknowledged him she would be getting criticized right now for "claiming" a child that she doesn't have custody of. She is basically damned if she does and damned if she doesn't!

MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" no i have a 1 month old son, one on the way, and the EX fiance kids which were my step kids and then ... [snip!] ... i don't have custody of. that don't = 5 becuase me and him are no longer together there for it's just me and my 1 month old now"


Isn't that exactly what she said? You have 5 kids including the one who are pregnant with. Two aren't yours, but you still claim them, so that makes 5.
1 (son who you don't have) + 2 (step kids- who you claim) + 1 (your 1 month old) + 1 (baby with whom you are pregnant) = 5 kids.

Baby Love. 3 kids; Washington 3135 posts
Dec 5th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ash*leigh:</b>" Even if she would have acknowledged him she would be getting criticized right now for "claiming" a child ... [snip!] ... now for "claiming" a child that she doesn't have custody of. She is basically damned if she does and damned if she doesn't!"</blockquote>




No. Not true.



No one gets bitched at for claiming their own damn children.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16080 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting ash*leigh:" Even if she would have acknowledged him she would be getting criticized right now for "claiming" a child ... [snip!] ... now for "claiming" a child that she doesn't have custody of. She is basically damned if she does and damned if she doesn't!"


Not really. She is a parent. She should act like one.

MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" So what you're saying is it would be normal if I divorced DH and he won custody of my daughter, I shouldn't acknowledge her anymore?"


Apparently that's exactly what she's saying.
I don't know how a person could claim to love their son so much that they make sure they are still in his life and don't "want to mess up his life" but then not claim him as their son?? Makes absolutely no sense.

Kimberlea Boggs 1 child; Reynoldsburg, Ohio 385 posts
Dec 5th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ash*leigh:</b>" Even if she would have acknowledged him she would be getting criticized right now for "claiming" a child ... [snip!] ... now for "claiming" a child that she doesn't have custody of. She is basically damned if she does and damned if she doesn't!"</blockquote>



Its because out of left field she started talking about a 7 year old son and everyone thought it was the step son in her about me... she isn't being judged on her past. Its just hard to understand anything when shit is all over the place. You cant expect to post something so personal on a forum and when asking for advice NOT give the back story in full.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
Dec 5th '12
Quoting ash*leigh:" Even if she would have acknowledged him she would be getting criticized right now for "claiming" a child ... [snip!] ... now for "claiming" a child that she doesn't have custody of. She is basically damned if she does and damned if she doesn't!"


I've never seen anything like that before.