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nikkigoodbear 2 kids; Seattle, Washington 123 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Why haven't you gotten him back yet?"

his dad has full custody of him now and he is happy being with his dad i don't want to ruin his life i still see him and long as he is happy and healthy so am i

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" can you read or not i already answered as to why i loss him im not going to keep repeating it over and ... [snip!] ... had you kids tkaaing fro you would you want to sit and repeat it over and over again? i think not and my story has not changed."


I didn't see anywhere where you said why he was taken or why you havent gotten him back yet.

Veronica m6 Due February 25 (boy); Fort Richardson, Alaska 1514 posts
5th Dec '12

Either way....do Like I said and good luck with all the children....
It aint my business so I'm going to stop digging.
Good luck and best wishes.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting VERONICA. MOM OF 6:" Hold up...So 1 not with you but yours a son 2 you claim, not yours though step daughters 1 baby with ... [snip!] ... daughters 1 baby with you 1 o old son and you are expecting Total to be 5 ...........WTF?!? Wow ...now I am really confused."


How did this go from 2 with one on the way to 5??

ash*leigh Due May 16; Augusta, Georgia 221 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" I didn't see anywhere where you said why he was taken or why you havent gotten him back yet."


She said she was young and was using at the time (as in drugs). That is why she lost him.

nikkigoodbear 2 kids; Seattle, Washington 123 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting VERONICA. MOM OF 6:" Hold up...So 1 not with you but yours a son 2 you claim, not yours though step daughters 1 baby with ... [snip!] ... daughters 1 baby with you 1 o old son and you are expecting Total to be 5 ...........WTF?!? Wow ...now I am really confused."


no i have a 1 month old son, one on the way, and the EX fiance kids which were my step kids and then my oldest who i don't have custody of. that don't = 5 becuase me and him are no longer together there for it's just me and my 1 month old now

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" his dad has full custody of him now and he is happy being with his dad i don't want to ruin his life i still see him and long as he is happy and healthy so am i"


So what you're saying is it would be normal if I divorced DH and he won custody of my daughter, I shouldn't acknowledge her anymore?

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" I didn't see anywhere where you said why he was taken or why you havent gotten him back yet."


She was using drugs. Page 3 or so.

nikkigoodbear 2 kids; Seattle, Washington 123 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" How did this go from 2 with one on the way to 5??"

have any of you ben reading or are you adding shit go look at my past post then you will no

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" no i have a 1 month old son, one on the way, and the EX fiance kids which were my step kids and then ... [snip!] ... i don't have custody of. that don't = 5 becuase me and him are no longer together there for it's just me and my 1 month old now"


Lawdy.... And hopefully your body can tolerate this pregnancy...

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" have any of you ben reading or are you adding shit go look at my past post then you will no"


Jesus christ I'm catching up. I had to go take care of my kid for a few minutes.

ash*leigh Due May 16; Augusta, Georgia 221 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" So what you're saying is it would be normal if I divorced DH and he won custody of my daughter, I shouldn't acknowledge her anymore?"

Even if she would have acknowledged him she would be getting criticized right now for "claiming" a child that she doesn't have custody of. She is basically damned if she does and damned if she doesn't!

MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting nikkigoodbear:" no i have a 1 month old son, one on the way, and the EX fiance kids which were my step kids and then ... [snip!] ... i don't have custody of. that don't = 5 becuase me and him are no longer together there for it's just me and my 1 month old now"


Isn't that exactly what she said? You have 5 kids including the one who are pregnant with. Two aren't yours, but you still claim them, so that makes 5.
1 (son who you don't have) + 2 (step kids- who you claim) + 1 (your 1 month old) + 1 (baby with whom you are pregnant) = 5 kids.

Baby Love. 3 kids; Washington 3124 posts
5th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ash*leigh:</b>" Even if she would have acknowledged him she would be getting criticized right now for "claiming" a child ... [snip!] ... now for "claiming" a child that she doesn't have custody of. She is basically damned if she does and damned if she doesn't!"</blockquote>




No. Not true.



No one gets bitched at for claiming their own damn children.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
5th Dec '12
Quoting ash*leigh:" Even if she would have acknowledged him she would be getting criticized right now for "claiming" a child ... [snip!] ... now for "claiming" a child that she doesn't have custody of. She is basically damned if she does and damned if she doesn't!"


Not really. She is a parent. She should act like one.