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gut feeling... LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1606 posts
5th Dec '12

The past couple of weeks my fiance has been really distant and just...off.. about a month ago he got up in the middle of the night and said he was going to sleep on the couch. When I got up in the morning I got on our tablet and the internet was pulled up to Craig's list with an add for a girl looking for a "good time". I got a little suspicious and started looking through the history. He had looked at 13 other posts exactly like it. All in our area and our age... I confronted him about it and he said he was just curious to see what stupid girls posted on Craigslist. Ever since then he has been acting off.. he texts me at least once a week saying he will be home late because he has A LOT to do.. idk if I'm just being paranoid now or if something is really up... I ask him what's going on and he says he is just stressed with bills and everything... I just have this gut feeling something isn't right... I've been cheated on A LOT. All except one ex has cheated on me so I don't know if I'm just being paranoid or if something is really going on... what would you do? Would you confront him? Advice please!!

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
5th Dec '12

I feel you have reasons to be paranoid... He sure is not helping.

Super Mommy! Due July 31; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Costa Mesa, California 9043 posts
status 5th Dec '12

Well you definitely have a right to be concerned. I think it's suspicious, but I have no real advice, sorry. :?

tooodles 240 kids; Thailand 5075 posts
5th Dec '12

Yeah that has a bunch of red flags written all over it!

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
5th Dec '12

With me i always had a feeling and it's always been right, but you've already confronted him and he gave you his answer, if you think he's up to something wait until you get proof, no point in causing problems when you don't even know for sure he's doing something.

SailorJerry 2 kids; California 17276 posts
5th Dec '12

I'd be suspicious too. Sounds like you already did confront him, and nothing came of it. Maybe wait it out and see if anything else fishy happens. Ive never been in that situation before so I dont have and personal experience for advice, but can you show up at his work place the days he claims he has to stay late and see if he is actually there?

Not here to please you 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 2214 posts
5th Dec '12

You have a right to be concerned. I would just be straight forward and ask him if he really wants be in relationship. Or if he just staying because he feels like he has too.

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; GoShox!, KS, United States 9199 posts
status 5th Dec '12

Usually your gut instinct is the correct one. I'm sorry you have to go through that.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
5th Dec '12

I'd be that crazy b***h who would would be waiting nearby his work, wait until he gets off and follow where he goes.... But Im nutz.

Stevie Renae 2 kids; North Carolina 11857 posts
5th Dec '12

Id say something is up, there should be no reason he would want to see what stupid girls post, or sleep on the couch if hes just stressed over bills. And if hes staying late working once a week that's extra money for bills to relieve stress some. Sounds sketch as hell.

LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1606 posts
5th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" I'd be suspicious too. Sounds like you already did confront him, and nothing came of it. Maybe wait ... [snip!] ... for advice, but can you show up at his work place the days he claims he has to stay late and see if he is actually there?"</blockquote>




We only have one car right now so unfortunately I can't....

LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1606 posts
5th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stevie Renae

LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1606 posts
5th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting That Girl.:</b>" I'd be that crazy b***h who would would be waiting nearby his work, wait until he gets off and follow where he goes.... But Im nutz."</blockquote>




I'm the same way. If I had a car I would be doing that too...

SailorJerry 2 kids; California 17276 posts
5th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting That Girl.:</b>" I'd be that crazy b***h who would would be ... [snip!] ... and follow where he goes.... But Im nutz."</blockquote> I'm the same way. If I had a car I would be doing that too..."</blockquote>




What if you have someone take you, a friend?

Super Mommy! Due July 31; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Costa Mesa, California 9043 posts
status 5th Dec '12
Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" I'd be suspicious too. Sounds like you already ... [snip!] ... stay late and see if he is actually there?"</blockquote> We only have one car right now so unfortunately I can't...."


Does he have a cell phone?