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.:ANIMAL:. California 740 posts
Dec 6th '12
Quoting .Colleen.:" Yes, that was my line of thought. If I were him and feeling that way, I would probably not want to put that on my partner that is sick, you know?"


But there-in lies the problem, if he can't come to me for anything, and can't be affectionate. Then he's emotionally disconnecting himself from me completely and plugging in to something else, not only is that selfish, but that's also ignorant on his part if that is the case. I get he has stresses, and issues, and problems. But not being affectionate, and then on top of that not talking to me about these issues and problems doesn't solve anything and drives a wedge further between us.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Dec 6th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting .:ANIMAL:.:</b>" But there-in lies the problem, if he can't come to me for anything, and can't be affectionate. Then ... [snip!] ... on top of that not talking to me about these issues and problems doesn't solve anything and drives a wedge further between us."</blockquote>



You guys definitely need to talk this out and get some professional help. Please keep us updated how it goes when you Guys talk.

Miss. Tiff Due November 20; 33 kids; Odessa, Missouri 2874 posts
Dec 6th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" I don't normally have issues with p**n. But, when it's affecting your relationship, it has to be addressed. ... [snip!] ... then he has a problem and needs to work on it. A lot of the dating sites are pop ups, though. I would still ask, to be sure."</blockquote>




I agree if it's affecting your relationship negatively it's a problem. If want to cry too.
Hang in there maybe try to talk to him.
good luck!

.:ANIMAL:. California 740 posts
Dec 6th '12
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting .:ANIMAL:.:</b>" But there-in lies the problem, if he can't ... [snip!] ... guys definitely need to talk this out and get some professional help. Please keep us updated how it goes when you Guys talk."


Well, we talked, and basically he was like "I won't do it if you don't like it, but I don't really care if you're upset about it or not, I have my right to do what I want, and watch what I want." then he threw it out there that at least he's not f**king someone else. like that makes me feel a WHOLE lot better...So now I'm sitting in a huge comforter crying on my couch....I feel un-loved and completely crap at this moment.

W.W. Due June 2; 3 kids; Arkansas 8009 posts
Dec 6th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting .:ANIMAL:.:</b>" Well, we talked, and basically he was like "I won't do it if you don't like it, but I don't really care ... [snip!] ... lot better...So now I'm sitting in a huge comforter crying on my couch....I feel un-loved and completely crap at this moment."</blockquote>
Wow, wtf...I'm so sorry hun :( . I wonder how he would react if you stopped giving a shit about his feelings.

Had my 10/10/10 baby! Brighton, ca, United States 1144 posts
Dec 6th '12

You are so beautiful!!! Your SO is being a f**king selfish d**k! He is so lucky to have a loving wife like you <3 Some men are really are into blad girls maybe you should tell him how bad he is making you feel and that you really need to feel loved and wanted right now.


But I will take you on a date if he keeps being a selfish prick lol. ;}