Estrella ♥ Luna 1 child; 752 posts7th Dec '12
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" I think we should stop making playing with dolls so taboo in the teenage years...really. It's natural ... [snip!] ... It's natural to feel that instinct telling you to have babies around that age...but that doesnt mean you have to follow it. ":!::!::!:
Exactly!! And some girls using the "I'm pregnant" line to keep their boyfriends around or even getting pregnant to keep them around is insane.
Ashley Jean ♥ 34 kids; Dry Ridge, Kentucky 12391 posts7th Dec '12
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" You would be surprised on how many girls could hide it in my school. When I was a sophmore, there were ... [snip!] ... baby's father. I couldnt imagine going through a pregnancy when I was a teen. :/ I would defiantly have a shmashmortion."
Oh I'm sure there were girls that hid it in my school. But if they did, there weren't many. Most of the girls that I know from school are really awesome mothers. There's only one girl that I know of that isn't a good mother, and that happens to be my ex-bestfriend. Sounds childish to call her that, but that's what she is. lol
I'm no longer with my kids' biological father either. But we were married for 3 years before we decided it wasn't right.
Now I'm married to my best friend (I've known him since I was 11! I'm 24 now).
I mean, people choose different routes in life....but being a crap mother/father has no excuse...I don't care how old you are. I was 18 with a kid and my husband at the time wouldn't work. So I worked to support our daughter and him. Then my dumba** got pregnant again and supported all of us for another couple of months before I just left him.
Some people aren't cut out for parenting...that's for sure.