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Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16780 posts
Dec 31st '12

Ugh I really think I might be miscarrying :/



Im still bleeding and its been now heavy enough to show on a pad. Its the same pad all day and just streaked everywhere but its mainly red. Ive also had cramping in my lower back and lower abdomen... And when I wipes just now I had like 2 small blood clots the size of like seaseme seeds :/ I really wish I knew for sure. Er said not to.come in unless I soak a pad in an hour :/ idk what to do.or what to think..

Daesey Due April 14; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Kansas 1482 posts
Dec 31st '12
Quoting Whoahbabyy:" Ugh I really think I might be miscarrying :/ Im still bleeding and its been now heavy enough to show ... [snip!] ... :/ I really wish I knew for sure. Er said not to.come in unless I soak a pad in an hour :/ idk what to do.or what to think.."


I really think you should go to the ER (or else call your OB in the morning and see if they'll schedule you for an ultrasound). When I miscarried, I felt cramping & had streaks with clots, but it was never enough to "soak a pad in an hour" like they tell you until days later --- but that night, I just felt something was wrong, so I went in anyway. I would rather know than to worry all night. I'm so sorry you're feeling so crappy and experiencing all of this ---- and I truly hope the best for you, honey. But, if you're in pain and you feel like you need to go.. then screw that "pad an hour" crap and go get seen... they can't turn you away. I cross my fingers for you and please let us know how you're doing, ok? PM if you need to talk, I can call you!

Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16780 posts
Dec 31st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Daesey:</b>" I really think you should go to the ER (or else call your OB in the morning and see if they'll schedule ... [snip!] ... turn you away. I cross my fingers for you and please let us know how you're doing, ok? PM if you need to talk, I can call you!"</blockquote>



Its not a bad pain just uncomfortable :/ its really hard to go in right now with a 3 year old.. and ob probably wont be open tomorrow because of nye :(

Anja[VBA2C GRADx2!] 5 kids; Illinois 3578 posts
Dec 31st '12

I'd give you advice, but I honestly have no personal experience with miscarriages. I've never had one and I hope I don't have one. My sister had multiple miscarriages and told me there was just a lot of blood and she always knew when it happened :( .



I'm hoping it's not a miscarriage, my sister suffered a lot because she had many of them.

Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16780 posts
Dec 31st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Anja[VBA2C GRAD]:</b>" I'd give you advice, but I honestly have no personal experience with miscarriages. I've never had one ... [snip!] ... always knew when it happened :( . I'm hoping it's not a miscarriage, my sister suffered a lot because she had many of them."</blockquote>




This would be my first :/ idk what to do... hubs doesnt know

Anja[VBA2C GRADx2!] 5 kids; Illinois 3578 posts
Dec 31st '12
Quoting Whoahbabyy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Anja[VBA2C GRAD]:</b>" I'd give you advice, but I honestly have ... [snip!] ... suffered a lot because she had many of them."</blockquote> This would be my first :/ idk what to do... hubs doesnt know"

I would just go in if I were you. It's worth knowing if everything is ok anyway. I know it's hard with a 3 year old but if you can do it, do it. It might not be a miscarriage, but it's better to know either way.

Daesey Due April 14; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Kansas 1482 posts
Dec 31st '12
Quoting Whoahbabyy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Daesey:</b>" I really think you should go to the ER (or else ... [snip!] ... uncomfortable :/ its really hard to go in right now with a 3 year old.. and ob probably wont be open tomorrow because of nye :("


Forgot you had the little one, sorry. If you're unable to get through to your OB tmw, and if the pain (or bleeding) gets worse, I hope you're able to get someone to sit for you so you can go get checked out.



I wish I could tell you that it's all going to be ok and not to worry, but that's just platitudes you don't need right now. All I can tell you is that in my experience, I had spotting & clots (dark red, dark brown) for a month & had an ultrasound ---- everything was fine, normal heartbeat, perfect peanut.



It could be a reaction because of the uti (along with the pain, too, b/c I see that a lot the residents I take care of). The only thing you can do is take it easy right now, put your feet up and try not to overexert yourself for the next couple days. Love and prayers to you --- please update us when you can.

Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16780 posts
Dec 31st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Daesey:</b>" Forgot you had the little one, sorry. If you're unable to get through to your OB tmw, and if the pain ... [snip!] ... feet up and try not to overexert yourself for the next couple days. Love and prayers to you --- please update us when you can."</blockquote>




Yeah its mainly dark red.



We are going to put lil one to sleep and my roommate is gonna listen for her :/

Daesey Due April 14; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Kansas 1482 posts
Dec 31st '12
Quoting Anja[VBA2C GRAD]:" I would just go in if I were you. It's worth knowing if everything is ok anyway. I know it's hard with ... [snip!] ... it's hard with a 3 year old but if you can do it, do it. It might not be a miscarriage, but it's better to know either way."


I agree, too. With the pain and the clots.... it could be a number of things. If she's able to, I do think she should get checked out.

Daesey Due April 14; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Kansas 1482 posts
Dec 31st '12
Quoting Whoahbabyy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Daesey:</b>" Forgot you had the little one, sorry. If you're ... [snip!] ... Yeah its mainly dark red. We are going to put lil one to sleep and my roommate is gonna listen for her :/"


Good! I so hope the best for you & the hubby! I will be praying for you.

Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16780 posts
Dec 31st '12

Def going in :/ more clots... ill let everyone know whats going on :/

Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16780 posts
Dec 31st '12

Well i had a miscarriage :/ i ended up passing the baby as soon as i got to the hospital. I guess it just wasnt our time. I hope you all have great pregnancies :) maybe ill get my fall baby or christmas baby :) thank you all for your continous support in this. It really did make it a lil easier.

nursemaya mom to 3! 3 kids; 5 angel babies; Minnesota 16015 posts
Dec 31st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Whoahbabyy:</b>" Well i had a miscarriage :/ i ended up passing the baby as soon as i got to the hospital. I guess it ... [snip!] ... ill get my fall baby or christmas baby :) thank you all for your continous support in this. It really did make it a lil easier."</blockquote>




Oh I'm so sorry *hugs*

Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16780 posts
Dec 31st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting nursemaya -mommy to 2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Whoahbabyy:</b>" Well i had a miscarriage :/ i ended up passing ... [snip!] ... you all for your continous support in this. It really did make it a lil easier."</blockquote> Oh I'm so sorry *hugs*"</blockquote>



Thank you. Im sorry you have went through them also. :/ it really is a completely different feeling and expierence

nursemaya mom to 3! 3 kids; 5 angel babies; Minnesota 16015 posts
Dec 31st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Whoahbabyy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting nursemaya -mommy to 2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Thank you. Im sorry you have went through them also. :/ it really is a completely different feeling and expierence"</blockquote>




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