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Cast Your Vote:

    • Yes, his ass would be in jail -- Votes: 55
    • No, he should not be in jail -- Votes: 77
Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Lot of factors to decide this... If she's getting an abortion, then you're damn right I'd call the ... [snip!] ... support, take care of that child like an adult. ONE slip up, and I call the cops faster than you can hum the Reno 911 theme. "


WAIT A MINUTE!?!?!? What does her getting an abortion have to do with anything? Are you saying that you would force her to have the child to keep the BD out of jail?

http://www.accountkiller. Minnesota 34665 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Just Ames:" I hope there is male BC by the time by boys have sex :?"


I'm going to get working on that ASAP.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" WAIT A MINUTE!?!?!? What does her getting an abortion have to do with anything? Are you saying that you would force her to have the child to keep the BD out of jail?"


Okay I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought that.

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" I'm just gonna lock my kid in a tower for the rest of her life. "


Yep. This.



Poor adjustment is way better than having little sluts running around.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" You can't "control" your children. You can guide them but they are human beings too."

Yes you can. If your child is out of control and behaving in a manner of risk, you most certainly can reign that in. I am not afraid to do that to my kids. If they are engaging in risky behaviors you bet I will be up their ass 24/7 until the behavior ceases. Obviously, I know that locking them to a bed is not going to change anything but I certainly will NOT turn a blind eye.

☆ IVAN'S MAMI 1 child; Utah 4210 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Devil's Advocate:" Yep. This. Poor adjustment is way better than having little sluts running around. "

i agree.. sometimes i don't understand why they have more kids

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Yeah, then as long as he helps out, I'm golden. And by helps out, I mean financially, emotionally, and ... [snip!] ... with a new infant, then I'll pull a Barbara Evans on her and get custody of that child myself. I've seen it done many times. "


Are you telling him to eat his kid? :shock:



:lol:

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" Okay I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought that."



I had to read that a few times. I was a little caught off by it.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
7th Dec '12

I don't know if I'd have him locked up or not. On one hand- he should be a sophomore in college, and what kind of gross perv that age f**ks a what, 9th grader? Ick. On the other hand- he'd be labeled as a sex offender for life and maybe that's a bit severe, even though to me the age difference is inappropriate.




Damn. She'd be under close watch forever, for sure.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" I'm saying he can't pay child support while in jail. So if he wants to provide for the child, he stays ... [snip!] ... behind bars. If he's not going to help with the accident he helped cause, you're damn right I'll MAKE him have consequences."


So you're making a decision to CHARGE him with RAPE (when it was NOT RAPE) based on his attitude?



That seems very spiteful.

Holly and girls! 2 kids; Texas 19487 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" Yes you can. If your child is out of control and behaving in a manner of risk, you most certainly can ... [snip!] ... ceases. Obviously, I know that locking them to a bed is not going to change anything but I certainly will NOT turn a blind eye."


But you can't be there 24/7! And you have to be teaching them to be an adult. Being up their ass isn't helping with the bigger picture.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" I'm saying he can't pay child support while in jail. So if he wants to provide for the child, he stays ... [snip!] ... behind bars. If he's not going to help with the accident he helped cause, you're damn right I'll MAKE him have consequences."


I am for him having to step up should then keep the baby but it shouldn't be a conditional thing. Then to keep him out of jail she could possibly have a child that she is in no way ready for. Then what? Are you going to hold it over his head for the rest of that baby's life? How effective is that?

user banned Due September 18; 1 child; California 21617 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Devil's Advocate:" Yep. This. Poor adjustment is way better than having little sluts running around. "


Hopefully Harlow learns from my mistake and that I can teach her and guide her to be responsible.. I don't like the thought of her having sex at all, and hopefully she doesn't until she's an adult but I know the reality and I just hope she won't be stupid about it.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" If she's underage, and he KNOWS her age, then yes. It's STATUTORY rape. She does not have the ability ... [snip!] ... statutory rape is. Just because she consented does not mean she COULD consent by the law's standpoint. If that makes sense. "



In a lot of states, that age gap IS acceptable and the 15 yr old CAN consent! IMO if he didn't forcibly have sex with her, he should be charged with any kind of rape!

Love! 18 kids; California 1989 posts
7th Dec '12

have not read all of the other posts but as a parent having anger and frustation get to you will not come with a positive outcome.... YOU have to realize that your daughter will not be able to support that child alone in the long run & that if she were ever to file for child support and he had to get a job and pay for child support that it would be more difficult and she may never see a dime because her parents had him arrested which in the long run would screw her over more then she already is financially.