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Single Mommies. Liv's Mom :: Angie 1 child; 4 angel babies; Catasauqua, Pennsylvania 394 posts
8th Dec '12

My SO and I are currently broken up and I have put up with too much of his drinking/rudeness/partying bullshit. He is currently on a trip with his uncles and a guy friend and the first place they went was a strip club.. something I don't approve of. I just don't like it and that's just me. Maybe if he changes when he sees his daughter we can work things out but as of now I cannot deal with it. Any advice from you single mommys? how did you get by? I am currently unemployed too. BIG Mistake.

Andi+Andy=Marley+1 2 kids; Fredericksburg, Virginia 4564 posts
8th Dec '12

You aren't together so he has the right to go to a strip club. If you were together he still has the right to go to a strip club. Find a job so you can support the baby. Some men change when the baby arrives but most do not.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
8th Dec '12

It's really not that hard. I like it. I don't have to ask anyone thier opinions on how to raise Cora, don't have to check in with anyone...

It's all I know but i do like it

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
8th Dec '12

I wouldn't go back to someone if I broke up with them.



Plus, he has the right to do whatever the hell he wants- he's single.

Liv's Mom :: Angie 1 child; 4 angel babies; Catasauqua, Pennsylvania 394 posts
8th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andi+Andy=Marley+1:</b>" You aren't together so he has the right to go to a strip club. If you were together he still has the ... [snip!] ... the right to go to a strip club. Find a job so you can support the baby. Some men change when the baby arrives but most do not."</blockquote>



Yeah well we were together when he went. I didn't break up with him cause of this, but he knows I hate it.

Liv's Mom :: Angie 1 child; 4 angel babies; Catasauqua, Pennsylvania 394 posts
8th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Raωkeℓ:</b>" I wouldn't go back to someone if I broke up with them. Plus, he has the right to do whatever the hell he wants- he's single."</blockquote>




I broke up with him this morning. He went to the club when we were still together, he knows I hate it