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S ♥ J ♥ L 1 child; 3 angel babies; Philadelphia, PA, United States 3902 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" That's what would get me, too. There are certain, like....rules? I guess? Bad way of wording it. Like, ... [snip!] ... then go watch it like I wasn't enough, especially when you know I like going again - that kind of thing, it's inconsiderate. "


thats how I feel now. to the T. when I first saw it I thought nothing of it. but after reading all these responses I'm a little "upset." like you said - feeling like I wasn't enough. or that he didn't want me, he wanted to see the girls on the website.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
Dec 9th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:</b>" I wasn't upset, I was asking how everyone else would feel. I didn't start feeling some way until all ... [snip!] ... girls started posting their responses. and I didn't get everything that I wanted - I coulda been fucked twice and not once lol"</blockquote>




So you feel a certain way because people tell you too? That's strange.



Why dont you ask him why he didn't ask you for more instead of having the women of bg make you feel a certain way.

S ♥ J ♥ L 1 child; 3 angel babies; Philadelphia, PA, United States 3902 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting Vodka Knockers:" I think I'd feel hurt. I'd sit there and think "Well, did he fake it with me?", or "Am I just not enough ... [snip!] ... other to make a move lol. I say talk to him, ask what's up, let him know it's a judgement free zone and you're just curious."


I think I might do that. He always overreacts to everything I bring up that he does, well not "wrong" but something that he did that could have been done differently or if I ask him something about an action he did.



and I think the same way - was I not enough? did you not enjoy what we JUST had to go watch p**n? and you really couldn't sit upstairs and watch a movie with me, you had to watch p**n?

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8096 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting I'm Marbles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:</b>" I wasn't upset, I was asking how ... [snip!] ... strange. Why dont you ask him why he didn't ask you for more instead of having the women of bg make you feel a certain way."

Meh...I have a hard time processing emotions. A lot of times I don't know if it's appropriate to feel the way I do because of certain issues.
I do often use BG as a way to figure out how to go about things, what the appropriate scale of emotion is, etc. I can kind of see it.

user banned Switzerland 96 posts
Dec 9th '12

How do you know that he masturbated? I ofter watch p**n without jacking off. I'm sure I'm not the only one.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
Dec 9th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" I'd be f**king PISSED and feel embarrassed to be completely honest!"</blockquote>




Why?

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" That's what would get me, too. There are certain, like....rules? I guess? Bad way of wording it. Like, ... [snip!] ... then go watch it like I wasn't enough, especially when you know I like going again - that kind of thing, it's inconsiderate. "


and he KNEW she wasn't sleeping. and he knows she's always up for another round afterwards. Which is why it would personally give me the feeling that I didn't satisfy my SO, hence the reason why I would be upset. That's just me though. People get upset over different reasons!

S ♥ J ♥ L 1 child; 3 angel babies; Philadelphia, PA, United States 3902 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting I'm Marbles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:</b>" I wasn't upset, I was asking how ... [snip!] ... strange. Why dont you ask him why he didn't ask you for more instead of having the women of bg make you feel a certain way."


ok? it made me realize and bring out some feelings that I didn't feel at first. after hearing how they felt, it kinda put my feelings into perspective. I'm not like over the top mad at him or anything to start a fight, I just want to ask him about it.

Nut ღ Meg 1 child; 1 angel baby; Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40256 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting Vodka Knockers:" I think I'd feel hurt. I'd sit there and think "Well, did he fake it with me?", or "Am I just not enough ... [snip!] ... other to make a move lol. I say talk to him, ask what's up, let him know it's a judgement free zone and you're just curious."


Hm, kind of hard for a guy to fake when he ejaculates..... or maybe I'm the only one who has a lot to clean up. lol



He could be faking the moaning or whatever, but to actually c*m? Not possible. :)



... I'm sure you know this though?

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8096 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" I think I might do that. He always overreacts to everything I bring up that he does, well not "wrong" ... [snip!] ... enjoy what we JUST had to go watch p**n? and you really couldn't sit upstairs and watch a movie with me, you had to watch p**n?"

Yeah, just make sure he knows that it's judgement free, consequence free, no hard feelings, you're just curious.
That's the only way I could get DH to be honest with me about things. He had to know that there wasn't going to be any negative repercussions, but the truth was important to me and that was kind of my way of encouraging him to be open.

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting I'm Marbles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" I'd be f**king PISSED and feel embarrassed to be completely honest!"</blockquote> Why?"


I've already explained myself in multiple responses. Pissed because he didn't ask me to have sex before he went and watched p**n, and embarrassed because I'd feel as though I didn't give him what he needed.

LolaMcKitten Due May 30 (girl); 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting David1981:" How do you know that he masturbated? I ofter watch p**n without jacking off. I'm sure I'm not the only one."


This is true, too. On the rare occasion that I do look at it, I don't always masturbate.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
Dec 9th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:</b>" think I should say something to him? and if so, what would I even say? "heyI saw your browsing history ... [snip!] ... already opened. I could lie and say I opened it to look for a website I was on last night. But when I'm mad I suck at lying. "</blockquote>




Why lie and make shit worse? That is stupid tell him the truth.

Nut ღ Meg 1 child; 1 angel baby; Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40256 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting David1981:" How do you know that he masturbated? I ofter watch p**n without jacking off. I'm sure I'm not the only one."


I like to watch it and laugh, personally. It's amusing to me.

Nut ღ Meg 1 child; 1 angel baby; Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40256 posts
Dec 9th '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" :D Yep you're the only one :lol: "



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