Quoting Funny Feminist:" Not to add to the negativity, but he sounds controlling. Not letting you ask your parents for help? ... [snip!] ... But he's YOUR husband, so you need to sit down and talk finances if you really think this is a problem. Not ask our opinions. "
How is that controlling? Maybe he doesnt want to owe people money over things that arent necessary.
Haha just kidding :D Read that wrong.
And yes, if she's having problems she should be able to ask her Dad for help.
This post just seems like you are trying to start stuff lol...very drama smelling so I am going to move along lol
Quoting Krystle ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" You're 28 years younger than him. ... [snip!] ... possibly have in common!?"</blockquote> Thinking the exact same thing... 28 years older is a big big big age gap..."
I read a previous post of hers and she's 22. He's 50 f**king years old.
His biggest mistake seems to be that married a girl younger than his daughter who is clearly too immature to realize he can take care of his own damn daughter if he wants to. I'd hate to have a step mom who is younger than me and jealous lol.
Quoting ♥ Tatiana
Quoting ♥ Tatiana
Ugh this girl sounds just like my dads girlfriend :roll: that's his daughter no matter what, he can do what he likes.
I would be disgusted if my husband wouldnt take care of his children from a previous relationship and they ended up in a shelter. Grown or not.
I commend you for taking on a guy older with so many kids, I could never do that..you look like a gorgeous woman!
<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" You're 28 years younger than him. You're not taking advantage of him???? What could you two possibly have in common!?"</blockquote>
Now don't go there :? There's a lot of big age gap relations that are genuine.
I'm not really trying to defend OP, but I know it would annoy me a little that I couldn't even get presents for my own kids or pay bills because he's giving all his money to his daughter.
Yes, its his daughter, but she's 25 yrs old, I think she needs to get her shit together and quit relying on daddy to pay her bills.
Quoting Mj's Crazy Mama♥:" I don't think so, his child or not. She's 25 with 2 kids and another on the way and she can't afford ... [snip!] ... out. But then again, we would never ask them to pay our rent every month...especially knowing they aren't able to afford it."
She didn't say every month, she said this one month. You don't know what the situation is...maybe something happened this month that left her in a tight spot. It happens.