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posting for a friend ;) The One You've Missed 16 kids; Texas 32426 posts
9th Dec '12

lol No seriously, I want to give her some advice and you guys always give me good shit to say!



I'm very in a I-f**king-hate-all-men so I feel like everything I've been saying has been really pessimistic and she's really wanting to hear something not so... well biased (ugly f**king breakup, I just went through isn't helping).



She's dating this guy and they live together, she went through a miscarriage with him, they are really cute together, but lately they've been arguing alot.



I guess he went to her house and they had a good long talk and he said that he just wants a break. That he won't mess around with other girls, but asked her to wait for him.. he told her that he thinks the space will do them some good, and they'll still hang out, and talk just like always he just won't be spending the night every night, and he will be going out with his boys once in a while and told her to the do the same with her girls.



She is scared this is his way of breaking up with her nicely.



What do you guys think? And what should I should tell her? Cause honestly right now, I just want to tell her he is probably already f**king someone on the side and he's a douchebag.. but again I'm a bit biased.

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
9th Dec '12

I agree he is breaking up with her. Then he will use her for sex.

Monsters² Mom 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Dahlgren, VA, United States 4920 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" I agree he is breaking up with her. Then he will use her for sex."


I agree with this too. Taking a break is a way to put your relationship on hold so you can screw other people and eventually come back to the relationship.
But then again I'm biased too because I did this to DH back in high school lol :oops:

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10434 posts
9th Dec '12

Seems like he is breaking up with her.

ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21505 posts
9th Dec '12

DH and I went on a break like this in college for about 2 months. It was the worst two months of my life but it I'm so glad we did it. 7 years later and were still going strong. It made us appreciate each other

The One You've Missed 16 kids; Texas 32426 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" I agree he is breaking up with her. Then he will use her for sex."


This is what I think too!!! I wanna tell her so but in a nice way. lol

Disney Mamma Due June 2; 1 child; Wasilla, Alaska 415 posts
9th Dec '12

I had a guy suggests this to be lol Glad he did because I met my DH two 2-3 months later. If she waits for him she's an idiot.

ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21505 posts
9th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:</b>" This is what I think too!!! I wanna tell her so but in a nice way. lol "</blockquote>




That's not always true. DH and I did not sleep with other people. We just needed time for ourselves you know? But we've also been together since we were 16 that kind of changed dynamics I think

Soon 2B Mom of 2 2 kids; North Highlands, California 3785 posts
9th Dec '12

No matter what his intentions, I have never had or seen a "break" that worked out for the couple. I'm not going to say he is just trying to sleep with her and other people, but the few times I have heard "I need a break", thats exactly what it meant. But the guys who tried to use that on me were douche bags anyways.

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 10952 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" I agree he is breaking up with her. Then he will use her for sex."


This is what I think too. Even though its not always this way but in this case I think it is.