Why is it bothering me so much wilde_mommy 4 kids; Columbus, Ohio 3459 posts9th Dec '12
DH has been bestfriends with the same guy since 1994, I've also been friends with this guy since 97. Well lastnight around 11 I was on facebook and his status update said something like "why cant you see I'm still a person and I still hurt" I told DH what it said so DH sent him a text asking if he wanted to go grab a beer. Friend said no and he didnt want to talk. DH didnt take that for a answer and he drove to his house about 20 minutes away. DH said he was only there for 2 minutes until friend broke down and told him he and his wife are getting a divorce. They have 2 children, have been together for 11 years and married for the past 3 1/2 years. He said it's been bad for a long time and there is no fixing it. I breaks my heart knowing how much pain he is in. He loves his wife he really does but they just cant fix it :( Last night I think DH and I were in shock over it. But today I am just so sad over it.I've actually cried over it a few times. I dont know if it scared me knowing if it can heppen to them it can happen to us or what. I know this is a pointless post but it has really been bothering me today
LolaMcKitten Due May 30; 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts9th Dec '12
It would bother me, too, to be honest, I would probably cry as well. It hurts to see people you care about going through stuff like that! And yes, it would make things feel very real for me, too - like a huge wake up call.
Regina George ♡ 1 child; New York, New York 20473 posts9th Dec '12
It's hurts to see people you care about going through rough times! I'd be upset too, especially if you were close with the couple.
ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts9th Dec '12
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" It would bother me, too, to be honest, I would probably cry as well. It hurts to see people you care ... [snip!] ... care about going through stuff like that! And yes, it would make things feel very real for me, too - like a huge wake up call."
:!: I couldn't of said it better myself.