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How would you feel if... Meℓony ♥ 1 child; Huntsville, AL, United States 3798 posts
9th Dec '12

Someone was to ask you, "Do you and her get along (mother in law/your SO's mother)?" you say yes. Someone then tells that person what you cal them (if you get along with them) and that person starts literally bitching at you telling you what you should actually call them...



My moms friend, asked me this, and my mom tells her that I call her Mama. She starts saying "WHAT! YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO CALL HER THAT!!!" And all sorts of shit.
Even though my mom doesn't care that I call her that.
What would you do?

*Bobo&Hooey'sMommy* 34 kids; Springfield, Oregon 23585 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting Meℓony ♥:" Someone was to ask you, "Do you and her get along (mother in law/your SO's mother)?" you say yes. Someone ... [snip!] ... SUPPOSED TO CALL HER THAT!!!" And all sorts of shit. Even though my mom doesn't care that I call her that. What would you do?"



my mother in law is dead. she was a wretched woman. your MIL didnt birth you, dont call her that. its odd.

Zekes mom 1 child; San Antonio, TX, United States 3106 posts
9th Dec '12

I'm confused....

LolaMcKitten Due May 30 (girl); 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
9th Dec '12

I would tell her to STFU and GTFO. :?

*Bobo&Hooey'sMommy* 34 kids; Springfield, Oregon 23585 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting SierraZeke&Zach:" I'm confused...."


someone bitched at her for calling her mother in law mama

Double.The.Trouble 2 kids; Florida 2260 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting *Noah&Presley'sMommy*:" my mother in law is dead. she was a wretched woman. your MIL didnt birth you, dont call her that. its odd."


This!!!

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
9th Dec '12

I'm not entirely sure what you're asking.

Mr's&Family* 2 kids; Arizona 3696 posts
9th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting SierraZeke&Zach:</b>" I'm confused...."</blockquote>




Me too.....

LolaMcKitten Due May 30 (girl); 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting *Noah&Presley'sMommy*:" my mother in law is dead. she was a wretched woman. your MIL didnt birth you, dont call her that. its odd."


......if thats what they are comfortable with, I fail to see why it's anyone elses businss? I called my ex's mother "mom" - and we weren't even married.

M walls 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7267 posts
9th Dec '12

Do you call your mil or mom mama? Either way it doesn't matter you can call them what you want

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" ......if thats what they are comfortable with, I fail to see why it's anyone elses businss? I called my ex's mother "mom" - and we weren't even married. "

yeah... I call Ev's dad mom. I hope to be close enough with this baby's dad's mom to call her mom too.

♥Mj&Daryl♥ (boy); 2 kids; Spokane, Washington 2392 posts
9th Dec '12

I call SOs Mom, Mom all the time.
You're Moms friend is nuts.
Especially since it doesn't bother your Mom

Meℓony ♥ 1 child; Huntsville, AL, United States 3798 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting Misty Walls:" Do you call your mil or mom mama? Either way it doesn't matter you can call them what you want"


I call my mom, mom.
my... well SO's mom, we aren't married yet, mama.
& I know that's how I feel about it.. I mean if my mom didn't like it I wouldn't call her that but my mom doesn't care she even said it herself.

Zekes mom 1 child; San Antonio, TX, United States 3106 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting *Noah&Presley'sMommy*:" someone bitched at her for calling her mother in law mama"


Oh that's stupid

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
9th Dec '12

I would tell her it's none of her business or just quietly get up and leave.