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I feel bad. Doodles mommy Due July 31; 2 kids; Starke, Florida 1611 posts
status 9th Dec '12

I feel so bad for being jealous that all my friends are finding out they are pregnant. Its just that all of them are having "oops babies" and dh and I are actually trying... In this past week alone 4 of my close friends have announced that they are expecting, and here I am trying my damndest with no luck. Sorry just a little vent. Maybe this will be put month.

Tea Bag McGee Due November 21 (girl); 2 kids; tardis, OS, United States 6891 posts
9th Dec '12

this might sound odd.. but with my first son when i was trying to have him i felt like that.. when it got to the year mark i started feeling nicely to my friends who got it easy. they would never know the stress the heart break ect ect.



how long have you been trying to have a little baby?

DinoKitty Minnesota 95 posts
9th Dec '12

I know the feeling :( This happened with my DH and myself. Everyone we knew were anouncing they were pregnant and we were ttc with no luck. Don't let it discourage you. Try to take the stress out of your life (or as much as possible). If you are taking ovulation tests try to not let DH know when you are ovulating, he won't be as stressed to get you pregnant. It was probably coincindence but about a month after I stopped telling him when I was ovulating we got pregnant. Good Luck and don't get discouraged it will be worth it when it happens :)

Doodles mommy Due July 31; 2 kids; Starke, Florida 1611 posts
status 9th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tea Bag McGee:</b>" this might sound odd.. but with my first son when i was trying to have him i felt like that.. when it ... [snip!] ... got it easy. they would never know the stress the heart break ect ect. how long have you been trying to have a little baby?"</blockquote>




Not nearly as long as some of the ladies on here, only 3 months. It was so easy with my other two though. I guess I just assumed it would be this time.

Doodles mommy Due July 31; 2 kids; Starke, Florida 1611 posts
status 9th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting DinoKitty:</b>" I know the feeling :( This happened with my DH and myself. Everyone we knew were anouncing they were ... [snip!] ... telling him when I was ovulating we got pregnant. Good Luck and don't get discouraged it will be worth it when it happens :)"</blockquote>




Thank you. He said he doesn't like it when I tell him about theopk's because then he feels like I'm only"with him" to steal his baby batter. Lol.

Tea Bag McGee Due November 21 (girl); 2 kids; tardis, OS, United States 6891 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting Doodles mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tea Bag McGee:</b>" this might sound odd.. but with my first ... [snip!] ... of the ladies on here, only 3 months. It was so easy with my other two though. I guess I just assumed it would be this time."


something i learned once i stop trying so hard and went with the moment that is when i became pregnant.

Doodles mommy Due July 31; 2 kids; Starke, Florida 1611 posts
status 9th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tea Bag McGee:</b>" something i learned once i stop trying so hard and went with the moment that is when i became pregnant."</blockquote>




Yeah, I've been trying not to be crazy. Baby fever hit me hard this time around.

PaintEventer TTC since Nov 2012; Ohio 12 posts
9th Dec '12

I can definitely understand where you are coming from! I just started TTC this month but I've wanted a baby for a long while. My fiance and I just weren't quite ready. Five of my cousins have had children or are now pregnant. All but one were surprises. I was so depressed when they announced. I was even in the delivery room twice with one of my cousins. When she gave birth I balled, I didn't want to be there but she really wanted me to so I did it for her.

Doodles mommy Due July 31; 2 kids; Starke, Florida 1611 posts
status 9th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting PaintEventer:</b>" I can definitely understand where you are coming from! I just started TTC this month but I've wanted ... [snip!] ... one of my cousins. When she gave birth I balled, I didn't want to be there but she really wanted me to so I did it for her."</blockquote>




Awe. Well, I wish you luck. :) tons of baby dust your way.