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-C.Lit-:) 64 kids; Italy 35513 posts
10th Dec '12
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" I am so sorry for your losses. :("



thank you.



still being hopefull that one day ill have my own bundle of joy...someday.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22453 posts
10th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" I think you should give it another go. You really sounds like you want another child, and you're not ... [snip!] ... not a mean b***h like some weirdos on here think. I just don't tolerate stupid very well :-) -- my name is Jamie by the way!"</blockquote>




I do understand what you mean. I did grieve differently with both my loss and my miscarriage.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
10th Dec '12
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" Thank you again. I'm Ellie! My husband says maybe in a few years, so we'll get some temporary BC and ... [snip!] ... and reconsider it in a few years. I have a healthy 17 year old and healthy 2 year old. I cant really complain though, ya know?"


cant complain, but you can still be sad!



that's such a great age difference, lol, i love it every time you mention it. is your daughter a big help or does she want nothing to do with babies? i guess it could go either way at that age.



im glad you guys decided to keep that baby machine open for a few years! yeeeeeeah!!!! :-)



Ellie is such a pretty name, I absolutely love it. My best friend named her daughter Estella (after her grandmother) and Ive always called her Ellie, I think its beautiful , but she calls her Bella, which i think is just way too played out and frankly ugly.

blah 17 kids; Alabama 7639 posts
10th Dec '12

My heart goes out to all mommas who lost children :( the pain is deep

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25371 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting shes*almost*one!:" cant complain, but you can still be sad! that's such a great age difference, lol, i love it every ... [snip!] ... called her Ellie, I think its beautiful , but she calls her Bella, which i think is just way too played out and frankly ugly."


Thank you! We had Eleanor picked out for the baby, and probably would have been Ellie too. DH thought it was cute, but me... not so much. I would much rather have used Nora for a nickname. Zoe is good with her. Gets annoyed like most teenagers do, but she's actually our babysitter while we are at work, which is great because I dont trust anyone, and she has nothing better to do. ha ha

Miss. Tiff Due November 20; 33 kids; Odessa, Missouri 2874 posts
11th Dec '12

First, missed MC 2008 found out at 11 Weeks baby passed at 6 Weeks 4 days
Second, mmc 2011 found out about 11 Weeks baby passed shortly after first u/s at 8 Weeks



I remember MY BABIES, MY CHILDREN, everyday!
No matter the term it was still my child,a piece of me.



I'm sorry for all mammas that have had to experience a loss of a child, born or UN born.

Tweakrachie 84 kids; Australia 846 posts
11th Dec '12

1st baby when he was 4 weeks old to SIDS.
2nd missed miscarriage (D&C).
3rd health 11 year old.
4th healthy 9 year old.
5th healthy 6 year old.
6th early miscarriage (found out i was pregnant at the same time I was M/c)
7th Ectopic pregnancy treat with methotrexate.
8th miscarriage.
9th well see what happens now??

Mommi+6 34 kids; Springfield, Ohio 66 posts
11th Dec '12

I lost mine at 14 weeks.
): miscarriage.
i completely lost myself and was depressed for months and just felt like i need to try again for another baby.

Two Princesses 2 kids; Long Beach, CA, United States 7198 posts
12th Dec '12
Quoting Squeaky McGee:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Syndal:</b>" I'm only asking because I wanted to compare for ... [snip!] ... The baby passed away between 7 and 8 weeks, but I didn't know until I went to appointment and there wasn't a heartbeat."


This happened to me in October of 2011. I was supposed to be 12 weeks or so and there was no heartbeat or even a baby. Just a gestational sack. The baby had apparently stopped developing around 5 weeks.
Verry sorry for your loss momma.

Two Princesses 2 kids; Long Beach, CA, United States 7198 posts
12th Dec '12

In 2008 I lost my first baby at 22 weeks 3 days gestation.
In 2011, I required a D&C for a missed miscarriage.