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    • Yes, it's okay. -- Votes: 9
    • No, it's never okay. -- Votes: 33
Random Question. (Domestic Violence) ♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5806 posts
10th Dec '12

Do you think it is okay for a man to hit a woman if she hits initiates it, and hits him first?



Why or why not?

*TiffanyMae* 2 kids; Montana 6002 posts
10th Dec '12

No, and it would be wrong on her part too.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
10th Dec '12

It's not okay to hit a loved one, no matter when you hit and if it's in retaliation.

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
10th Dec '12

They're both wrong.



If a guy hits a girl, does that give HER a right to hit him back?



Violence is wrong no matter who hits first, or second.

IDID-VBAC 12/09 2 kids; Alaska 44106 posts
10th Dec '12

No, it is never ok. It would be wrong of her to hit him to begin with.

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
10th Dec '12

It's never ok to hit anyone.



Self defence is a different matter. If she is physically assualting him and he ends up hurting her trying to get away from it, that's her fault.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7099 posts
10th Dec '12

It's wrong because society sees it that way. But wouldn't it be self defense? I don't know.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22790 posts
10th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thisperyears:</b>" It's not okay to hit a loved one, no matter when you hit and if it's in retaliation. "</blockquote>



This is what I was trying to say but couldn't get it to come out right so I erased it

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
10th Dec '12

I would like to say that he should be able to defend himself. Truth is, I don't think anyone should be hitting anyone.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 119170 posts
10th Dec '12

Nope, its wrong on both their parts. Now to physically restrain someone who is beating you, that is ok.

.Solange. 1 child; Montreal, 5566 posts
10th Dec '12

Two wrongs don't make a right.
I do think that if you hit someone though, you should be prepared to be hit back, not saying that it's appropriate but an action = a reaction

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10865 posts
10th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" I would like to say that he should be able to defend himself. Truth is, I don't think anyone should be hitting anyone. "


I agree, he should be able to defend himself. Sometimes wives can be a lot bigger than their husbands.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
10th Dec '12
Quoting loser mom:" I agree, he should be able to defend himself. Sometimes wives can be a lot bigger than their husbands. "


Like Honey Boo Boo's mom! lol

K[♥ E&C] 2 kids; Nevada 25704 posts
10th Dec '12

It's not okay for a woman to put her hands on a man and it's not okay for a man to put his hands on a woman. Domestic violence goes both ways. It's not just men who do it.

.t a y l o r. 3 kids; Indiana 3847 posts
10th Dec '12

If defense is needed, then, yes. He/she warrants a roundhouse kick to the teeth, no questions asked.
But, truthfully, no one should be hitting anyone. People like to turn a blind eye to physical abuse when it's woman on man and say its not real.
There are some scary ass women out there.