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    • Yes, it's okay. -- Votes: 9
    • No, it's never okay. -- Votes: 33
Random Question. (Domestic Violence) ♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5798 posts
10th Dec '12

Do you think it is okay for a man to hit a woman if she hits initiates it, and hits him first?



Why or why not?

*TiffanyMae* 2 kids; Montana 6002 posts
10th Dec '12

No, and it would be wrong on her part too.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
10th Dec '12

It's not okay to hit a loved one, no matter when you hit and if it's in retaliation.

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
10th Dec '12

They're both wrong.



If a guy hits a girl, does that give HER a right to hit him back?



Violence is wrong no matter who hits first, or second.

IDID-VBAC 12/09 2 kids; Alaska 44106 posts
10th Dec '12

No, it is never ok. It would be wrong of her to hit him to begin with.

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
10th Dec '12

It's never ok to hit anyone.



Self defence is a different matter. If she is physically assualting him and he ends up hurting her trying to get away from it, that's her fault.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7052 posts
10th Dec '12

It's wrong because society sees it that way. But wouldn't it be self defense? I don't know.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22498 posts
status 10th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thisperyears:</b>" It's not okay to hit a loved one, no matter when you hit and if it's in retaliation. "</blockquote>



This is what I was trying to say but couldn't get it to come out right so I erased it

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
10th Dec '12

I would like to say that he should be able to defend himself. Truth is, I don't think anyone should be hitting anyone.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; South Land, CA, United States 117173 posts
status 10th Dec '12

Nope, its wrong on both their parts. Now to physically restrain someone who is beating you, that is ok.

.Solange. 1 child; Montreal, 5566 posts
10th Dec '12

Two wrongs don't make a right.
I do think that if you hit someone though, you should be prepared to be hit back, not saying that it's appropriate but an action = a reaction

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10520 posts
status 10th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" I would like to say that he should be able to defend himself. Truth is, I don't think anyone should be hitting anyone. "


I agree, he should be able to defend himself. Sometimes wives can be a lot bigger than their husbands.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
10th Dec '12
Quoting loser mom:" I agree, he should be able to defend himself. Sometimes wives can be a lot bigger than their husbands. "


Like Honey Boo Boo's mom! lol

K[♥ E&C] 2 kids; Nevada 25704 posts
10th Dec '12

It's not okay for a woman to put her hands on a man and it's not okay for a man to put his hands on a woman. Domestic violence goes both ways. It's not just men who do it.

.t a y l o r. 3 kids; Indiana 3847 posts
10th Dec '12

If defense is needed, then, yes. He/she warrants a roundhouse kick to the teeth, no questions asked.
But, truthfully, no one should be hitting anyone. People like to turn a blind eye to physical abuse when it's woman on man and say its not real.
There are some scary ass women out there.