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SEX! yangarang[18 weeks]♥ Due May 18; FAIRBANKS, Alaska 34 posts
11th Dec '12

on average, how many times per month or week or whatever do people have sex?
i'm married nd me nd DH have been together for three years now. so i'm just wondering what's normal. nd now seems to be a great time to get replies to random questions hahaha

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
11th Dec '12

In our perfect world 4-6 times a week. In reality maybe twice a week.

yangarang[18 weeks]♥ Due May 18; FAIRBANKS, Alaska 34 posts
11th Dec '12

lol by "our perfect world" are you talking personally or in literally the world?

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
11th Dec '12

When we got together *5 years ago* we had sex daily...



5 years and 2 more kids maybe twice a week... we still have awesome sex when we have it, but 3 kids and all the *big kid* responsibilities that come with 3 kids, house, jobs, school, ect... physically were tired lol and were older, he was 25 when we got together now he's almost 30... I'm 27 and I feel like I'm in my 40s lol

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
11th Dec '12

When we got together *5 years ago* we had sex daily...



5 years and 2 more kids maybe twice a week... we still have awesome sex when we have it, but 3 kids and all the *big kid* responsibilities that come with 3 kids, house, jobs, school, ect... physically were tired lol and were older, he was 25 when we got together now he's almost 30... I'm 27 and I feel like I'm in my 40s lol

~*My heart is complete*~ 1 child; Hudson, Florida 1498 posts
11th Dec '12

Most of the time 4times a week sometimes 3.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
11th Dec '12

Why do you say the word and as nd?



And to answer your question... 3-5 days a week. 1-2 times a day. We have been together for 8.5 yrs and he's my DH. Not sure what normal for other couples is though.

yangarang[18 weeks]♥ Due May 18; FAIRBANKS, Alaska 34 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" When we got together *5 years ago* we had sex daily... 5 years and 2 more kids maybe twice a week... ... [snip!] ... were tired lol and were older, he was 25 when we got together now he's almost 30... I'm 27 and I feel like I'm in my 40s lol"


see this is my fear. cuz we still have sex daily. even preggers. but i'm already worrying about the six weeks after baby is born and all the time baby will consume after that. -_- ughhhhh.

justwanttodelete Due July 23 (girl); Switzerland 1021 posts
11th Dec '12

Before LO everyday...After LO 3 times a week between a full time job and taking care of baby im just so tired most nights been together 1 1/2 years

TootsMcGoots 1 child; Saskatchewan 3732 posts
11th Dec '12

Sex? What is that?

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
11th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ying.yang[17 weeks]♥:</b>" see this is my fear. cuz we still have sex daily. even preggers. but i'm already worrying about the six weeks after baby is born and all the time baby will consume after that. -_- ughhhhh. "</blockquote>



Having kids changes relationships, dosnt mean we don't love eachother... some nights I just want to cuddlle some nights I don't even want to sleep next to him lol, other nights I want to have sex, but we have 3 kids and they come 1st...

Fur_Cue 4 kids; Dundee, United Kingdom 1222 posts
11th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ying.yang[17 weeks]♥:</b>" see this is my fear. cuz we still have sex daily. even preggers. but i'm already worrying about the six weeks after baby is born and all the time baby will consume after that. -_- ughhhhh. "</blockquote>



Damn straight a new baby's gonna consume that lol but if it makes you feel better , thing get better.



When we first met, it was 1-3 times a day average and we had two kids between us then, now with 4th baby on the way and his insommina 2-4 a week but its twice more than his work mates get lol (they moan alot about it and assume he has none cause we have more kids lol)

Loco Ono 1 child; Arizona 825 posts
11th Dec '12



Quoting Ms.Eagles:" Sex? What is that?"


!
DH and i never have sex. we are happy but i thought back to when we last had sex and im like 0_0. Having DD did something to my drive, i swear it did. :(

TootsMcGoots 1 child; Saskatchewan 3732 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting Love Muffin:" ! DH and i never have sex. we are happy but i thought back to when we last had sex and im like 0_0. Having DD did something to my drive, i swear it did. :( "


I agree! When I was pregnant, SO didn't want to have sex because he was afraid of hurting the baby :roll: I was so pissed off and couldn't wait until after I delivered so we could have sex again (after the 6 weeks PP, of course) Once LO was born, my sex drive went waaaaayy down...almost off :( LO is now 6 months old, and I'm pretty sure I can count on one hand how many times we've had sex....I just don't think about it anymore. I heard it's common, and it can take some women up to about a year post partum for things to get back to normal...Poor SO :(