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♥ Amber ♡ Due August 13; 1 child; Kansas 17681 posts
11th Dec '12

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Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
11th Dec '12

I wanted to tell my now DH I loved him early on in our relationship. It was killing me too holding it inside. But I refused to give and tell him first. I wanted him to really mean it. A week after I decide I wanted to tell him but I wasn't actually going to he told me on the most romantic night and in the most romantic way ever! I'm so glad I waited because its the moment I've held into and cherish the most.
But if you really want to tell him, I say do it. Lol

Nicola =) 1 child; Huntsville, Alabama 2783 posts
11th Dec '12

Nothing says I love you , like a text.

October2011 Due April 3; 1 child; Pennsylvania 6494 posts
11th Dec '12

he told you he's not in love yet? what a buzz kill. idk what i would do...

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
11th Dec '12

I would wait. Wait until you feel it's the right time-- when it is, you won't chicken out. And say it in person.

Amber ♡ Due August 13; 1 child; Kansas 17681 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting Jenna+1:" I wanted to tell my now DH I loved him early on in our relationship. It was killing me too holding it ... [snip!] ... glad I waited because its the moment I've held into and cherish the most. But if you really want to tell him, I say do it. Lol"


Maybe I'll wait! It's just killing me holding it in LOL I sometimes catch myself almost about to blurt it out.

Amber ♡ Due August 13; 1 child; Kansas 17681 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting Nicola =):" Nothing says I love you , like a text."


Right? LOL That's how she told her DH so she told me that's how I should tell him.... I was like uhh, I wanna tell him in person haha

Amber ♡ Due August 13; 1 child; Kansas 17681 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting The Doctor:" I would wait. Wait until you feel it's the right time-- when it is, you won't chicken out. And say it in person."


You're right! If it really IS the right time, I won't chicken out. I feel it, I really do. It's crazy, never thought I'd be able to leave BD.

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting ღ a&m:" You're right! If it really IS the right time, I won't chicken out. I feel it, I really do. It's crazy, never thought I'd be able to leave BD."


I understand.



And trust me, if you wait a few more weeks, it'll come naturally and all will be well. I wouldn't rush to say it, especially when he's told you he's not there yet.

Nicola =) 1 child; Huntsville, Alabama 2783 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting ღ a&m:" You're right! If it really IS the right time, I won't chicken out. I feel it, I really do. It's crazy, never thought I'd be able to leave BD."


Eventually it will just come out. With my fiance, about a week before we both said it, I kept silently saying "I love you" in my head when I would leave. One day we both just blurted it out at the same time.

Elliot Grace (17 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 18131 posts
11th Dec '12

Joe said he loved me after two weeks of dating in high school LOL. I told him I liked him, then really liked him, then really really likes him, etc. until I could say I loved him back. He understood and was very supportive of that...and and it took me 6 months to say I love you back lolol