user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting ᗩmandaSixx |34 wks|:" yea its sad :("


IDK what you're referring to, but I think it's because a lot of people abuse the system, so assistance has a negative association, kwim?
I think a lot of people use it when they don't HAVE to, and it's shitty.



But as a whole, I think it's great that there is assistance available for people when they need it.

Kali'sMommy♥ 1 child; California 13723 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" IDK what you're referring to, but I think it's because a lot of people abuse the system, so assistance ... [snip!] ... to, and it's shitty. But as a whole, I think it's great that there is assistance available for people when they need it. "


Too many people abuse they system. They know how to work the system, and the people who really do need help have a hard time even getting assistance.

May♥ Due December 29; 1 child; Texas 9207 posts
Feb 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" Aw, I'm sorry. It'll get better. ish. IDK. I hate work in general :oops:"</blockquote>




Yeah. I broke my first dish last night and my boss said I got a hair in someone's food. Ughhhh.

Kali'sMommy♥ 1 child; California 13723 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting May ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" Aw, I'm sorry. It'll get better. ish. IDK. I ... [snip!] ... :oops:"</blockquote> Yeah. I broke my first dish last night and my boss said I got a hair in someone's food. Ughhhh."


Where do you work?

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:" Too many people abuse they system. They know how to work the system, and the people who really do need help have a hard time even getting assistance. "


My kids are on medicaid. Since like...a week ago. We had to jump through hoops with paperwork and shit. And I honestly am not too thrilled about them being on medicaid, I'm too prideful.
But taxes went up, and so did insurance costs through DHs work. So he gets smaller checks, and pays more for insurance. I'm glad that we were able to get assistance because otherwise my kids would be uninsured. I'm very thankful that it was available.
I don't even see HOW people can abuse it the way they do. They get all up in your finances and shit.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting May ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" Aw, I'm sorry. It'll get better. ish. IDK. I ... [snip!] ... :oops:"</blockquote> Yeah. I broke my first dish last night and my boss said I got a hair in someone's food. Ughhhh."


Ew :lol:



But hey. It happens. You just started. It'll get better. I think you need a more positive outlook about it, it'll make it easier for you IMO!

May♥ Due December 29; 1 child; Texas 9207 posts
Feb 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:</b>" Where do you work?"</blockquote>




A steakhouse.

May♥ Due December 29; 1 child; Texas 9207 posts
Feb 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" Ew :lol: But hey. It happens. You just started. It'll get better. I think you need a more positive outlook about it, it'll make it easier for you IMO!"</blockquote>




Your right I do, but its hard when I hate it. I mean overall I "like" my job but I hate that I don't get a day off.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting May ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" Ew :lol: But hey. It happens. You just started. ... [snip!] ... Your right I do, but its hard when I hate it. I mean overall I "like" my job but I hate that I don't get a day off."


It is what it is though, better than your family having to pay for everything, or most things, kwim?
I was working 2 part time jobs and in college full time while parenting Joey and pregnant with Bri. It f**king sucked but it had to be done :lol:

AmandaSixx + JZSE 3 kids; Gresham, Oregon 30086 posts
Feb 23rd '13

im on assistance :oops: but i honestly dont plan on being ont his shit for the rest of my life! im going to school! im trying to find a job (i have a record) and as soon as this kid is out im going to maybe try baby sitting or something!

Kali'sMommy♥ 1 child; California 13723 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" My kids are on medicaid. Since like...a week ago. We had to jump through hoops with paperwork and shit. ... [snip!] ... that it was available. I don't even see HOW people can abuse it the way they do. They get all up in your finances and shit. "


I get where you are coming from when you say jump through hoops with that damn paperwork. They denied me for medicaid for Kali so she is currently uninsured. Thank god she is part Native because they have programs here where they will cover everything if I go into one of their clinics for her. Its really a life saver. The funny thing is the people who do abuse the system are driving around bemires and high class cars, nice ass houses, but you cant afford to put food in your kids stomachs or pay for insurance or out of pocket for medical bills? They lie and they are good at it, and quite frankly it pisses me the f**k off.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Feb 23rd '13

I hate laundry, but I am thankful that I can get 2 loads done at a time. .



but I still hate it.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting ᗩmandaSixx |34 wks|:" im on assistance :oops: but i honestly dont plan on being ont his shit for the rest of my life! im going ... [snip!] ... im trying to find a job (i have a record) and as soon as this kid is out im going to maybe try baby sitting or something!"


Hey, do what you gotta do.

May♥ Due December 29; 1 child; Texas 9207 posts
Feb 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" It is what it is though, better than your family having to pay for everything, or most things, kwim? ... [snip!] ... time jobs and in college full time while parenting Joey and pregnant with Bri. It f**king sucked but it had to be done :lol: "</blockquote>




Yeah. I mean I'm not complaining about the money :D We are in a great place financially right now.

AmandaSixx + JZSE 3 kids; Gresham, Oregon 30086 posts
Feb 23rd '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" Hey, do what you gotta do. "



yeah i just hate when people say shit about it :(