homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60854 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" If it helps, I'm the same way. It takes a lot of build up for me to finally bring something up. And ... [snip!] ... he seems like the discussion is stupid to him, or he doesn't understand what I'm saying, I end up crying. I'm terrible :oops: "


Yea. If I can get myself off the couch today I'll go to the bookstore and get that book for him. Maybe it'll force a discussion. :lol:

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting grace life:" Yea. If I can get myself off the couch today I'll go to the bookstore and get that book for him. Maybe it'll force a discussion. :lol:"


That'd be great if it does!
There's one on my Amazon wishlist that I wanna get. Well, 2. Okay like 5.



Unfortunately last time I tried to start reading something or do something to spark conversation and get us working on these issues, it didn't work. Still working on him not acting like a brat :roll:

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60854 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" That'd be great if it does! There's one on my Amazon wishlist that I wanna get. Well, 2. Okay like ... [snip!] ... to spark conversation and get us working on these issues, it didn't work. Still working on him not acting like a brat :roll: "


Reading together is something DH and I enjoy doing. So, we might as well do what we know works!

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
13th Feb '13

Stupid BFF's Flickr won't let me post his photos in here. :x



http://www.flickr.com/photos/jonno_atamaniuk/8261436095/in/set-72157632218443104/



http://www.flickr.com/photos/jonno_atamaniuk/8262504662/in/set-72157632218443104/



http://www.flickr.com/photos/jonno_atamaniuk/8262504120/in/set-72157632218443104/



Ahh I give up trying to post links. They're all on the same set of photos anyway. But those up there are a few of my favorites.



Since K&S is full of photographers, what do ya think?

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting grace life:" Reading together is something DH and I enjoy doing. So, we might as well do what we know works! "


That's awesome!!! Reading is a nice shared hobby. OR so I've heard lol.
We try to read together, and discuss books as we read. But as soon as I get into the book, he decides he doesn't like it anymore :lol:



I swear we're ridiculously incompatible. I was telling him that the other day and he was like "we don't need to be compatible. We just fill eachother's holes" :lol:

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
13th Feb '13

7 days till NYC :D Noooo clue what we're going to do while we're there.

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40235 posts
13th Feb '13

Pet peeve:



It is not should of.



It is should have.




:x

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60854 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" That's awesome!!! Reading is a nice shared hobby. OR so I've heard lol. We try to read together, and ... [snip!] ... I was telling him that the other day and he was like "we don't need to be compatible. We just fill eachother's holes" :lol: "


Chris hates reading, he just sits there and listens. Works for me.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting grace life:" Chris hates reading, he just sits there and listens. Works for me. "


aw. you guys are so cute.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" "


I wish you drove so that you could go shop for your own vibe. :lol: They sell Evolved products in most sex shops. :P I can't even imagine what your DH will bring home for you. Bahahahaha.



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Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" That's awesome!!! Reading is a nice shared hobby. OR so I've heard lol. We try to read together, and ... [snip!] ... I was telling him that the other day and he was like "we don't need to be compatible. We just fill eachother's holes" :lol: "


And he's not filling your holes! :x Haha

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60854 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" aw. you guys are so cute. "


He tolerates me :lol: When I turn 30 I'll have already spent over half my life with him. :shock:

Phallus Cranium fuknutz, NM, Togo 103257 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting grace life:" Just something I need to work through. Sex, in my opinion, is an important part of marriages. I need to be able to discuss it without getting nervous or clamming up. "


It took me a lonnnngg time too

Hint: add some alcohol to losen the lips :wink:

lise. ෆ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cold, Ol, Canada 58697 posts
status 13th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" I legit don't even remember how long I was with DSs dad for. A couple years. Had the sex not been phenomenal, we probably wouldn't have stayed together that long. :oops: "</blockquote>



I don't even know why ex and I lasted as long as we did. For Lin, I guess.

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60854 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" It took me a lonnnngg time too Hint: add some alcohol to losen the lips :wink:"

That makes me feel more uncomfortable. A glass of wine is fine, but I'm really uncomfortable going past that -- serious alcoholism runs in my family, and with my personality type? I could easily become an alcoholic I think. Maybe that's just way too extreme of a way to think about it....welcome to my crazy. :wink: