user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Amαndα ♕:" But it wouldn't be a shock, ill tell her all her life, do not get pregnant because x,y and z."



I will be doing the same thing.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59101 posts
status 18th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" Understandably so. Everyone needs to know EVERY option and what it means. I don't think a 4 year old ... [snip!] ... When S is old enough, and mature enough to understand every option at a deeper level then I will explain it to her ya know. "</blockquote>




Oh f**k, sorry, no I have definitely not taught my daughter about sex or abortion yet. I'm talking like.. 13-14.

The One You've Missed 16 kids; Texas 32426 posts
18th Feb '13

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user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Amαndα ♕:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" I am all for listing off reasons, but a ... [snip!] ... The husband you have now? It's very unlikely you'd be as successful. Not to mention the memories and expierences you've had."



I said I probably wouldnt be where I was at now. LOL
Maybe I would have, maybe I wouldnt have, we will never know because I was not pregnant at 16. LOL

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59101 posts
status 18th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" You wouldnt want her to stay with you so she could save more money after the baby is born? I dont know how it is in Canada but most 16 year olds in the states cant go and rent an apartment. "</blockquote>



I had an apartment at 15..



I don't know for sure, I'd have trouble just turning my back on her, but I refuse to have one of these teens on here who just live in a family members house complaining about dumb shit. I can't deal with that.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
18th Feb '13

oh god... I think my partner would murder our daughter if she got knocked up as a teen though :( f**king mexican. he told me he wants her to be a virgin until like mid20s. Ummmmm, right... cos that's your choice & all :?

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59101 posts
status 18th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" I said I probably wouldnt be where I was at now. LOL Maybe I would have, maybe I wouldnt have, we will never know because I was not pregnant at 16. LOL"</blockquote>



Well think about it, whenever you met your husband would he have asked you out if you had. 4-5 yer old or whatever? Would you have been able to go to school? I'm not arguing you completely, I was 18 when I had Brooke and my life is better than a lot of people's but do I want that for my daughter? No way, and I had to have an abortion to get here too.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting
user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Amαndα ♕:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" Understandably so. Everyone needs to know ... [snip!] ... Oh f**k, sorry, no I have definitely not taught my daughter about sex or abortion yet. I'm talking like.. 13-14."


Yeah I was thinking the same age. IMO a 7 year old should not know what an abortion is. But that is me, and if people want to tell their kid that I mean it is what it is.

Stfu Squirrel District of Columbia 8554 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting I'm Marbles:" You wouldnt want her to stay with you so she could save more money after the baby is born? I dont know how it is in Canada but most 16 year olds in the states cant go and rent an apartment. "


Someone I know got a girl pregnant when they were young teenagers. The girl refused to abort, became an emancipated minor at 15, and the girl and baby spent the baby's first several years crashing on friends' floors.
BAD situation.
The baby's an adult now, and it sounds like she could have turned out worse, but she sounds kind of defective. So many lives and so much potential was destroyed in the process.



I'd abort my 15-year-old for coming home pregnant.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Amαndα ♕:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" You wouldnt want her to stay with you so ... [snip!] ... to have one of these teens on here who just live in a family members house complaining about dumb shit. I can't deal with that."


Oh I totally agree. I wouldnt be like you have to be out before the baby is born, but I would say aim for this date to be out, IF possible. I mean shit happens. My house was suppose to be done being built in May, it wasnt done until July and that was with me hounding them.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59101 posts
status 18th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" Yeah I was thinking the same age. IMO a 7 year old should not know what an abortion is. But that is me, and if people want to tell their kid that I mean it is what it is. "</blockquote>




I wouldn't out of respect for other parents, I believe a 7 year old can understand birth control. But just like Santa and sex and such, I don't want her to tell other kids.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting
Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59101 posts
status 18th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" Oh I totally agree. I wouldnt be like you have to be out before the baby is born, but I would say aim ... [snip!] ... shit happens. My house was suppose to be done being built in May, it wasnt done until July and that was with me hounding them. "</blockquote>




Well it would depend on so much, but as long as she was taking strides towards independence (in every aspect, not just her financial situation) then I wouldn't be hounding her. But if she's not trying, no way. My mom can take her in.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59101 posts
status 18th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" I hope my children are Virgins until they graduate High School. If they want to save it for marriage ... [snip!] ... opinion of course. I have never heard anyone in the world use the term "my partner" I chuckle every time. In a good way tho."</blockquote>




We are so different ;)



I Ike that we can talk like civilized people though, I know a lot of people don't see things the same way.