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HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22958 posts
11th Dec '12

All of those symptoms could be from the BC and it may be gas.



You need to go get a blood test. I know you can't go but you need to. It needs to help yourself.



Also you can't have a period while pregnant. You can bleed but it is not a period. A period is shedding the uterine buildup from a non fertilized egg. If you are pregnant you do not ovulate. Making it impossible for a period to happen

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting Jennybananna:" 16 and in the UK she might not even be in school anymore."

Oh, that must be nice :D

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22958 posts
11th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessica-Jade:</b>" I am in the uk so no planned parenthood. The reason i can't go is because at the moment i live with ... [snip!] ... whilst not pregnant and if anyone here has ever got pregnant on the implant or had periods/negative tests during pregnancy."</blockquote>



If you can get out to have sex you can get out to go to the doctors

MommaAngel Due April 6; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Killeen, TX, United States 185 posts
11th Dec '12

this is my first pregnancy and to me when my baby moves right now it feels like butterflies or the flutters like you mentioned you said you feel. but every woman says it feels diffrent to them. you defanintly NEED prenatal care at this point if you are. anyone can get a false negative in a home urine test due to a low pregnancy hormone count but if you are it will show up in a blood test only a planned parenthood or hospital can give you. If you feel you cant go to your parents for help you need to go to some adult you trust that can. for your health safety and your possible babies health safety as well. Good luck!!!

Jessica-Jade Due December 9; Japan 9 posts
11th Dec '12

Have already been to the doctors whilst here and she refused to let me go alone she came with me. Due home next week, would be able to go to the doctors whilst at home as my mum is less strict so just want to know chances etc before i go doctors. Not in school at the moment, starting college when i go back home.

Bettinas 2 kids; Australia 2204 posts
11th Dec '12

If you're coughing up phlegm, just tell her that you have a cough and want to get it sorted out. Or tell her about the headaches and just say that you want to see about them because they're worrying you. I'm sure that she will want you to be in good health and take you to a doctor.

I♡C&R. 2 kids; Thornton, CO, United States 25259 posts
11th Dec '12

You will be OK if you're going to go home next week. I'd just go right away when you get home.

MommaAngel Due April 6; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Killeen, TX, United States 185 posts
11th Dec '12

If you choose to wait till you get home to find a way to get to a doctor then when you get home you need to go see the doctor AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!

Jessica-Jade Due December 9; Japan 9 posts
11th Dec '12

Thanks for everyones replies. And as i explained i believe im 14 weeks pregnant at the least. I haven't had sex in 2 months as ive been here for 2 months, haven't even seen my boyfriend in 2 months so can't get out even for sex.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 69577 posts
status 11th Dec '12
Quoting Jessica-Jade:" Thanks for everyones replies. And as i explained i believe im 14 weeks pregnant at the least. I haven't ... [snip!] ... had sex in 2 months as ive been here for 2 months, haven't even seen my boyfriend in 2 months so can't get out even for sex."


Well good luck to you.

JKBC♡ 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 9796 posts
11th Dec '12

I doubt your pregnant because you never had a child before so you don't know what movement feels like (it's probably gas). Just go to the doctors when you're back home.

αuτumnαl ~, FL, United States 67180 posts
11th Dec '12

It would probably be a good idea to leave him if he's that controlling. :?



Find a way to get yourself to a clinic or hospital to be tested.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
11th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting sταrry skies:</b>" It would probably be a good idea to leave him if he's that controlling. :? Find a way to get yourself to a clinic or hospital to be tested."</blockquote>




It's her grandma not the boyfriend

αuτumnαl ~, FL, United States 67180 posts
11th Dec '12
Quoting Jennybananna:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sταrry skies:</b>" It would probably be a good idea ... [snip!] ... :? Find a way to get yourself to a clinic or hospital to be tested."</blockquote> It's her grandma not the boyfriend"


Ah. My bad.



Either way, you still need to find a way to get yourself tested.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
11th Dec '12

I wouldn't worry too much, my friend got the implant when she was 16 and actually experienced every single thing you have said and wasn't pregnant. Everyone was convinced she was, even her Mother, she had the hard swollen pregnant looking belly and everything but it turned out it was just the implant seriously messing with her body. That being said you should still get to a Dr. and get blood test done. Also I'm from the UK and at 16 you're legally an adult, there is no way your Gran can force herself in the Dr. Office. If she wants to come along you tell her fine, then when the Dr. calls you in you just politely say "You can wait here, I'm going in by myself." They will not allow her to come in with you. I think it's high time you tell your Grandmother you may be living under her roof but as a 16 year old adult you are perfectly capable of attending a Dr. appointment on your own. Medically it really isn't any of her business why you're attending a Dr. anyway, wether it be for the flu or a suspected pregnancy. Also again your 16 years old, the legal age of consent, a legal adult here so wether or not you're having sex and who with is not her business either.