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What would you do Best of both worlds ;-) 18 kids; California 422 posts
12th Dec '12

Ive been with my daughters father for almost 3 years now im almost 26 & hes almost 29 this my second baby and his first. I really dont want anymore kids i have a little boy going on 5 and our daughter is 1 month old since weve had our daughter he now wants more kids. I really dont know what to do right now i mean ive explained to that i dont want anymore kids and my rrason behind it but hes set on having more. I really dont know what to do at this point i understand why he want more kids but its like he dont understand why i don't and reason is simple i have my little girl and little boy im done....What would you do in this situation?

NopeNotGonnaDOIt 6 kids; Cuba 3000 posts
12th Dec '12

get on birth control, wait and see how you feel in a few years.

Tarynosaurus Rex San Antonio, Texas 1271 posts
12th Dec '12

I'd personally tell him it's not his decision, and in the case of whether or not to have kids the person who *doesn't* want them always wins.

Best of both worlds ;-) 18 kids; California 422 posts
12th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama❍Moon:</b>" get on birth control, wait and see how you feel in a few years. "</blockquote>




Oh we have had that talk also i wont be having anymore anytime soon if i do decide to give him one more. To me it seem like its harder when u have more than one kid im really still adjusting to having two.

NopeNotGonnaDOIt 6 kids; Cuba 3000 posts
12th Dec '12
Quoting Best of both worlds ;-):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama❍Moon:</b>" get on birth control, wait and see how ... [snip!] ... to give him one more. To me it seem like its harder when u have more than one kid im really still adjusting to having two."


I said I was done after my second. My third is now 4months! BUT I wasn't on birth control.

Best of both worlds ;-) 18 kids; California 422 posts
12th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama❍Moon:</b>" I said I was done after my second. My third is now 4months! BUT I wasn't on birth control. "</blockquote>




What is the gap between your kids if you don't mind me asking? Also since you've had your third is it harder now that you have 3

NopeNotGonnaDOIt 6 kids; Cuba 3000 posts
12th Dec '12
Quoting Best of both worlds ;-):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama❍Moon:</b>" I said I was done after my second. My ... [snip!] ... is the gap between your kids if you don't mind me asking? Also since you've had your third is it harder now that you have 3"


22 months between the first 2 and 33 months between the second two. It definitely takes some juggling and I don't like to go out alone often with all three but in some situations its manageable!