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January mommies (sex question) Bella & Blakes mommy 2 kids; Florida 67 posts
12th Dec '12

im 34 weeks now and I mean obviously I know it hard having sex with a belly BUT...this has been happening recently
has anyone had it hurt to where you can't keep going?
another question, Are any of you as how do i put this "HOT'" as I am?
During my first pregnancy the last months I didn't want it at all! and with this one I NO JOKE want it all the time! but now it't really hurting is this normal? ANY of it? lol

Andi+Andy=Marley+1 2 kids; Fredericksburg, Virginia 4564 posts
12th Dec '12

Sex either hurts my hips/pelvic area (just like walking does) or I can't breath

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 16736 posts
12th Dec '12

I'm not a jan. mom....



but during the end sex was uncomfortable... it felt like he was hitting my cervix.



I found being on top, I could control how deep and fast to go..so that was the best position.



I had a high sex drive as well.



OT- but you are super pretty!

Bella & Blakes mommy 2 kids; Florida 67 posts
12th Dec '12
Quoting Andi+Andy=Marley+1:" Sex either hurts my hips/pelvic area (just like walking does) or I can't breath"


hmmm?? none of that hurts on me the only thing that really hurts is my actual you know what I feel a lot of pressure

Bella & Blakes mommy 2 kids; Florida 67 posts
12th Dec '12
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" I'm not a jan. mom.... but during the end sex was uncomfortable... it felt like he was hitting my cervix. ... [snip!] ... how deep and fast to go..so that was the best position. I had a high sex drive as well. OT- but you are super pretty! "


that's fine if you're not i appreciate the help anyway lol
on top you say hmmmm? I think I should try that
....(blushing) thank you hun!

Rhi1973 Due January 9; 4 kids; United Kingdom 36 posts
13th Dec '12

I find being on top the most painful, too full and making me need to take sharp breaths. The easiest position for me is from behind, it takes the weight of the baby off my vagina and even though there still isn't much from it works best. :/ x

Melissa Caruso 3 kids; North Little Rock, Arkansas 478 posts
13th Dec '12

I am not supposed to dtd with my hubby but I did anyways! It makes the baby ball up really tight and hurts me pretty bad too. Doesn't help that everything is the size of the Earth right now, ugh... Don't think I will be doing it again until after the baby.

Miss May :] 1 child; Japan 5 posts
15th Dec '12

Im 37 weeks and want it all the time. Its hurting though. We cant seem to find a comfortable position...

JadeChandel Due January 19 (boy); Japan 8 posts
16th Dec '12

I want it all the time and I'm 35 wks. I've found the spooning position is comfy but sadly I usually don't hit my peak. That's our only problem.

Amber Campbell1227 Due January 8 (boy); 1 child; Oshkosh, Wisconsin 24 posts
17th Dec '12

I'm horny all the time but when we have sex it hurts me as well or I can't get in a comfortable position..I can't breath well either...I keep tell my hubby when the baby comes out it's game over lol!! Glad to hear I'm not the only one that has issues during sex...

Melissa Caruso 3 kids; North Little Rock, Arkansas 478 posts
18th Dec '12

Meh, I'd just do it myself if sex hurts too bad! lol

CindyE Due January 28 (girl); Grand Island, Nebraska 4 posts
18th Dec '12

Im 34 weeks pregnant and i have the same problem sometimes i have to stop my hubby because of the sharp pain i get down there, Ive also noticed im a little bit dryer down there, and sometimes i get so swollen Ive asked my DR and she said its normal and to try some serum... I havent tried it yet because im scared of the pain ill feel.

Takesha OnlyOne Martin Due January 5 (boy); Memphis, Tennessee 1 posts
18th Dec '12

I'm 37 weeks and I still want it all day and night.My hubby thinks im crazy for wanting it so much.We tried from the back,side,and top.idk but the side and back is the best for me.At least until the baby starts kicking like he knows what is going on.lol

aronaldridge Due January 12 (boy); Richmond, Kentucky 15 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting JadeChandel:" I want it all the time and I'm 35 wks. I've found the spooning position is comfy but sadly I usually don't hit my peak. That's our only problem."


The easiest for me and hubby is spooning but i just cant get satisfied like that. :/ my belly is so big now that im 36 wks so its hard for him on top and it hurts for me to be on top. i wanna do from behind but i awkwardly have the fear that im gonna quief...hope thats spelled right lol hes my husband so im not shy but thats one thing that would turn my face red!!! any help would be great

brightmoon Due January 22 (boy); 2 kids; Hayes, United Kingdom 2 posts
19th Dec '12

i'm 35 weeks now and so shouldn't have looked at this thread! lol. It's uncomfortable whichever way you do it but if you need it, just be gentle... I want sex but due to placenta praevia (low lying placenta) I have been told to avoid it!! Practically impossible for someone whom it doesn't take much to arouse. actually feel sad that I cannot be affectionate with my partner any more without the frustration of just going with the flow as and when the mood takes. the last time I attempted was 26 weeks...spooning where I controlled the motions, not him...I would go with on top too as you have pretty much control there as well choosing how far you take it. 8) Good luck to you.xx