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Do you think it's right?? *TaraT&3peas* Due March 31; 2 kids; Ohio 359 posts
13th Dec '12

That my mom thinks my kids are mistakes, yet tells me she loves them? And thinks my new baby will be a "monster" because she does not like the guy i'm with and that my baby will be a monster because it runs in the genes????? Wtf crazy b***h.

Double.The.Trouble 2 kids; Florida 2260 posts
13th Dec '12

I think that's STUPID!

Renegade♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indian Rocks Beach, FL, United States 5414 posts
13th Dec '12

my mother would 1. get smacked up side her shit if she ever said that about my kids and 2. would never see my kids again

user banned California 8675 posts
13th Dec '12

f**k her she sounds like a b***h and even if they were not planed is not her place to tell you shit regarding that.

Double.The.Trouble 2 kids; Florida 2260 posts
13th Dec '12
Quoting →Ebahϖ:" my mother would 1. get smacked up side her shit if she ever said that about my kids and 2. would never see my kids again"


Perfectly said lol

Sloth clusterfuck, LA, Sri Lanka 106782 posts
13th Dec '12

Sounds like grandma needs a good dose of stfu :wink:

Maria + Cory = Alexis 17 kids; Middleport, Ohio 1075 posts
13th Dec '12

Don't listen to her! My mother hasn't been very supportive during my pregnancy and considering the support she gave my sisters during all six of theirs it is very hurtful. But in the end I realized I don't need her. I will love my baby enough for the both of us. I don't care what she thinks, she had her time as a parent and if she isn't happy with me that is her doing not mine. You enjoy your pregnancy and that baby. Your an adult now, you can survive without her. Good Luck with your pregnancy and just enjoy it.

Puff the Magic Dragon! 15 kids; Ontario 14235 posts
13th Dec '12

That's so hurtful. I can't believe your own mother would tell you that. Then turn around and act like they are the center of her world.



I would tell her off.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
13th Dec '12

My mother use to say that our oldest was our "perfect mistake". I know she genuinely loves him to death, but the mistake talk still bothered me. I asked to please stop and I didn't mind "surprise" but that nothing about him was a mistake an I didn't want him to ever feel that way. She doesn't do it anymore.
As far as calling your new one a monster, crazy b***h, that's so f**king mean.

D♥'sK 17 kids; Keokuk, Iowa 329 posts
13th Dec '12

I would be pissed. Period. I would not put up with it. Im sorry that she even said that, If she loves them she would and should never say that.

Iron Man 6 kids; 1 angel baby; 1700 posts
13th Dec '12

That is ridiculous! Your kids are not mistakes. What a b***h.



I'd be so angry if anyone, let alone my mother, said that about my children. I would seriously pissed off and not talking to her, let alone allow her to see the kids.

~*Flibbertigibbet*~ Helena, Montana 821 posts
13th Dec '12

That would be about the time I would cut off all ties with my mother. She can't claim to love your kids and then speak about them that way. That makes her a liar...and I don't abide liars.

Mrs. Lee :) 17 kids; Virginia 288 posts
13th Dec '12
Quoting *TaraT&3peas*:" That my mom thinks my kids are mistakes, yet tells me she loves them? And thinks my new baby will be ... [snip!] ... she does not like the guy i'm with and that my baby will be a monster because it runs in the genes????? Wtf crazy b***h."


That's wrong. my mom thinks the same of my daughter. since i had her before getting married, she says the pregnancy and my daughter is a mistake even though she loves her and gives her so much attention. i dont get it. i dont understand how someone can call a child a mistake but love them. does that mean in the end, even though she loves the child, she still wishes it was never born? makes me angry when i think about it. a child is innocent in its conception and the circumstances of its birth so no one should call it a monster or a mistake or blame anything on them

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
13th Dec '12

I don't know your situation but I can see why someone would say their grand kid is a mistake but still love them. However, saying your newborn will be a monster because she doesn't like BD, yeah .. very ignorant.

Renegade♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indian Rocks Beach, FL, United States 5414 posts
13th Dec '12

so were all on the same page here? b***h needs ti get smacked lol