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Not sure if I should abort pregnancy, Husband left me, need CherryStars Colorado 3 posts
13th Dec '12

So, im 7 weeks pregnant. I have 3 children. This was unexpected. I am so against abortion but i dont know what to do now. My husband is unhappy with us and he is leaving me to stay with someone else. I dont know if i can handle being pregnant without him and raising another child now since we wont be together. any advice, should i go through with it, i just dont want any regrets and i dont know how i would feel.

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20865 posts
13th Dec '12

Wow, I'm sorry :( He sounds like an a*****e. I would probably consider abortion, idk... being a single mom to 3 is hard enough I'm sure

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
13th Dec '12
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*ny chick* TTC since Oct 2012; 16 kids; New York, New York 561 posts
13th Dec '12

Theres. Always adaption

S U Z I E 3 kids; Venezuela 18554 posts
13th Dec '12

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† Phoenix † 1 angel baby; 16166 posts
13th Dec '12

Like i tell most people that come in here
Do a pro and cons list and see which ways out more and think about that.
Because obviously abortion isn't so easy to go through so you definitely have to make sure that what you want to do.

Mrs. Post-tato Head 4 kids; 1 angel baby; 6789 posts
13th Dec '12

I can't tell you what to do, but honestly if I was in your position I'd consider abortion as well. I have three kids and I could not imagine doing it alone especially while pregnant with a fourth.



I'm sorry you're dealing with this :( Good luck with whatever you decide.

~*My heart is complete*~ 1 child; Hudson, Florida 1498 posts
13th Dec '12

If you think you will regret it don't go thru with it. That's one thing you can't take back. You can raise your kids and when you go thru with your divorce you will get child support.

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20865 posts
13th Dec '12
Quoting *ny chick*:



what's adaption?

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
13th Dec '12
Quoting ~*My heart is complete*~:" If you think you will regret it don't go thru with it. That's one thing you can't take back. You can raise your kids and when you go thru with your divorce you will get child support."

well not very much to support 4 kids on. OP I suggest doing what another poster said, write down the cons and the negatives. Good Luck

S♡J=Malachi Due January 8; 3 angel babies; Florida 3278 posts
13th Dec '12

If you think you will have regrets don't do it.

LP&Bs MOMe 3 kids; Tempe, Arizona 3312 posts
13th Dec '12

Three kids is a lot to support. I am single with three. If I was to become pregnant right now, I probably wouldn't abort. I don't know though. When I found out I was pregnant with my second I went as far as going to the abortion clinic, paying the $500, then seeing the ultrasound and walking out. I couldn't do it. I was on birth control when I got pregnant with her. My third daughter my ex was breaking condoms to purpously get me pregnant. I never even thought of getting an abortion, even though I was single. There is no way I could become pregnant righ now though! I have implanon and I don't have sex! Yay for no babies! It is really up to you though. They have therapists/social workers who can help you figure out what you want to do.

Man in stockings 1 child; Colorado 2766 posts
13th Dec '12

I think it would be different if you weren't married. THIS is something that weather you like it or not has to talked through with him. What if you aborted and then he took you back and wanted to work things out?

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 21576 posts
status 13th Dec '12

It is up to you. I'm a huge fan of pros and cons lists. Consider all of your options and what kind of life your existing children and unborn child and yourself would have if you did each option

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
13th Dec '12
Quoting CherryStars:" So, im 7 weeks pregnant. I have 3 children. This was unexpected. I am so against abortion but i dont ... [snip!] ... we wont be together. any advice, should i go through with it, i just dont want any regrets and i dont know how i would feel. "


If you are against abortion, don't consider it. If you know for fact that you couldn't handle this situation without your husband, abort.



If I were in your shoes, the last thing I would want is another pregnancy on top of the situation you are facing. I personally would abort.