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i dont know where to post this Richard and samantha Due June 20; New York 33 posts
14th Dec '12

for all i am a guy and im not really sure what to do on here my fiance told me to come on here that it would make me not so nervous i am going to be a first time father i am 22 im nervous

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23731 posts
14th Dec '12

Welcome.
What are you most nervous about?

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30924 posts
14th Dec '12

Welcome to BG!




Does your fiance have an account on here?

Richard and samantha Due June 20; New York 33 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" Welcome. What are you most nervous about?"


everything when my older sister courtney had my niece jasmine i would not hold her i was always afraid of dropping her we have been trying for so long so i am happy but scared i feel like we wont be able to make it either because they are so expensive

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22552 posts
14th Dec '12

We all are nervous before it happens. Once the baby comes you'll get the hang of being a parent.

Richard and samantha Due June 20; New York 33 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting i made a vagina.:" Welcome to BG! Does your fiance have an account on here?"


yes she does i do not know how to find her

almuuh 2 kids; California 1701 posts
14th Dec '12

Welcome :) Everyone gets nervous about having a baby

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23731 posts
14th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Richard and samantha:</b>" everything when my older sister courtney had my niece jasmine i would not hold her i was always afraid ... [snip!] ... been trying for so long so i am happy but scared i feel like we wont be able to make it either because they are so expensive"</blockquote>




I'd never held a baby before my oldest son was born. I have three kids now, and I have yet to drop one of them.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Richard and samantha:" everything when my older sister courtney had my niece jasmine i would not hold her i was always afraid ... [snip!] ... been trying for so long so i am happy but scared i feel like we wont be able to make it either because they are so expensive"


Your biggest role is support. Make sure you do your research on important topics like circumcision, breastfeeding etc and just fully support her because she will need it!

Richard and samantha Due June 20; New York 33 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Your biggest role is support. Make sure you do your research on important topics like circumcision, breastfeeding etc and just fully support her because she will need it!"


its hard to support her i love her but she just makes it very hard she has already made a full list of all the baby items we will need with the price of each thing i just think shes taking it to far and shes really stressing me out it doesnt help she already bought a brest pump and stuff i dont see why she needs this alreday it doesnt make sense

Richard and samantha Due June 20; New York 33 posts
14th Dec '12

how do i change where im from on here i dont live in japan

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
14th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Richard and samantha:</b>" its hard to support her i love her but she just makes it very hard she has already made a full list ... [snip!] ... me out it doesnt help she already bought a brest pump and stuff i dont see why she needs this alreday it doesnt make sense"</blockquote>




It's better to slowly buy stuff while your pregnant. If you were you go and buy everything once your LO was born it would be a lot of money at once and you would have a screaming baby with you at the store.
As for being scared of holding a new born I think everyone(including mothers) are nervous about holding such a little person. The nurses can show you how to hold the baby.
Congratulations :)

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
14th Dec '12

Is she your fiance,
Or your wife?

Tiffany Knickerbocker 19 kids; Indiana 519 posts
14th Dec '12

Your baby probably needs everything she is getting. And it's a smart idea to have a breast pump before the baby is born if she plans on breast feeding. I started using my breast pump like 2 days after my son was born. You will be surprized at how much room a small baby will actually take up. Good Luck!!

Richard and samantha Due June 20; New York 33 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Richard and samantha:</b>" its hard to support her i love her ... [snip!] ... mothers) are nervous about holding such a little person. The nurses can show you how to hold the baby. Congratulations :)"


im just so scared i will hurt the baby bc they are so small and i am much bigger plus she wants to breast feed i want to be able to feed the baby to but now i cant