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Moving E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
14th Dec '12

I've been trying for ages to bring myself to leave SO because it just isn't working anymore. Well today my financial situation changed and I have no choice but to move back to my hometown and leave him here. I don't know how I feel about this. So many emotions. I'm happy because I'll be with my friends and family. But upset that he'll be so far away from DD. And I know I will miss him deep down. I don't want to be another statistic, single mum with no baby daddy around. But I can't force a relationship that just isn't working. And I can't afford to stay here anyway. I just needed to write my feelings down so I could hear it in my head and try and make sense of it.

~*Flibbertigibbet*~ Helena, Montana 821 posts
14th Dec '12

Good luck, hun. It won't be easy, but you'll have friends and family for emotional support. *hugs*

E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
14th Dec '12

Thank you :)

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
14th Dec '12

Its so hard when it's not working but you still love someone, I left my ex after five and half years and its hard im not ganna say its not but freeing you will feel so much better

E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Its so hard when it's not working but you still love someone, I left my ex after five and half years and its hard im not ganna say its not but freeing you will feel so much better"


Yeah. I know I will be able to move on eventually. I just feel bad for DD :(

1 child; United Kingdom 1719 posts
14th Dec '12

Good luck hun, hope things work out for you!

E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
14th Dec '12
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*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 16161 posts
14th Dec '12

When I left my ex husband, I had to move 1000 plus miles away to get to my family and friends..so I drove by myself with my then 3 month old. It was totally worth it! Keep your head up! You will be fine and their support will help you out so much.