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Low sex drive... IDGAF ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30687 posts
14th Dec '12

I am bfing and I haven't had a period at all since May 2011, well I think that probably has a whole lot to do with my issue. Usually the normal me is a horny beast but since I have been breastfeeding I just feel so ughh about sex.



I have started dating this new guy & I feel sooo put off about sex and it sucks. I know sex is a big part of a relationship & idk what to do. :\ I just think my hormones are soo out of wack because of breastfeeding. It could also have to do with the fact I haven't had sex in over a year & a half too haha. Idk I just hate the way I feel this is NOT like me at all.

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 22785 posts
14th Dec '12

I'm in the same boat mama. I haven't had a period size January of 2011 lol. Bf just takes the sex drive right out of me

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30687 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:" I'm in the same boat mama. I haven't had a period size January of 2011 lol. Bf just takes the sex drive right out of me"


It sucks! :( I don't want the new dude I am dating to become bored with me because I am just not into sex like that right now.

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
14th Dec '12

Gosh this pregnancy is taking a toll on my relationship... I hope it doesn't last while I breastfeed or SO wont get any for another 2.5 years o_O

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30687 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥:" Gosh this pregnancy is taking a toll on my relationship... I hope it doesn't last while I breastfeed or SO wont get any for another 2.5 years o_O"


See when I was pregnant, I was even MORE horny than usual lol.

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 22785 posts
14th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ❥ Meℓi:</b>" It sucks! :( I don't want the new dude I am dating to become bored with me because I am just not into sex like that right now."</blockquote>



Yeah that sucks! You could just do what I do and give him lots of bjs lol DH doesn't complain too much ;)

Ronnie RadKat 4 kids; Arizona 22143 posts
status 14th Dec '12

How do you ladies not get periods at all? I've been bfing (exclusively until about 11mos) since April 2011, I got my first pp af in Aug 2011. I have a crazy sex drive still, so maybe that's the trade off LOL!



Are you on BC at all?

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30687 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Spencer Pratt:" How do you ladies not get periods at all? I've been bfing (exclusively until about 11mos) since April ... [snip!] ... I got my first pp af in Aug 2011. I have a crazy sex drive still, so maybe that's the trade off LOL! Are you on BC at all? "


Idk I guess I just got lucky haha. No BC yet, but I am going to get on it soon because of me dating a new guy & I don't want to risk getting pregnant again even though we will use condoms, I feel I need double protection haha.



My sister hasn't had a period since like 2009 I think but she also has a Mirena IUD and breastfeeds. My nephew will be 3 in March.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30687 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ❥ Meℓi:</b>" It sucks! :( I don't want the new ... [snip!] ... Yeah that sucks! You could just do what I do and give him lots of bjs lol DH doesn't complain too much ;)"


True, that could work haha.

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 22785 posts
14th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Spencer Pratt:</b>" How do you ladies not get periods at all? I've been bfing (exclusively until about 11mos) since April ... [snip!] ... I got my first pp af in Aug 2011. I have a crazy sex drive still, so maybe that's the trade off LOL! Are you on BC at all? "</blockquote>




No bc, but I am unhealthily skinny right now I know that is playin a part in no pp period yet..bf-ing is literally sucking the fat off my bones. My 00 are too big right now it's disgusting

Ronnie RadKat 4 kids; Arizona 22143 posts
status 14th Dec '12
Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Spencer Pratt:</b>" How do you ladies not get periods at all? ... [snip!] ... a part in no pp period yet..bf-ing is literally sucking the fat off my bones. My 00 are too big right now it's disgusting"


That was my next question, if you are underweight or not. I got down pretty low, then I started eating like a man and I've maintained my weight since.

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 22785 posts
14th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Spencer Pratt:</b>" That was my next question, if you are underweight or not. I got down pretty low, then I started eating like a man and I've maintained my weight since. "</blockquote>




I eat like 10 men. I think my thyroid is fucked up argghhhhh it's frustrating.