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For those of you.. Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
14th Dec '12

Who moved far away for a relationship.
If it don't work out what did you do?
Did you go back home? Move out but stay in the same place?



I'm at a loss and I guess a bit in denial that its over because its taken him 5 months to end things. And he still hasn't actually said " I don't want to be with you"



Anyway... I just don't know where to start. I moved here on a few months notice but didn't bring anything besides my car and some personal belongings. So I have nothing I need to move into my own place...



I just don't f**king know what to do.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 18508 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Monkey Nuts:" Who moved far away for a relationship. If it don't work out what did you do? Did you go back home? Move ... [snip!] ... car and some personal belongings. So I have nothing I need to move into my own place... I just don't f**king know what to do."


I would go where I felt more comfortable...which would most likely be home.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
14th Dec '12

if we had kids and shared custody then obciously i would stay and just slowly get what i needed.



if i didnt have kids, id move back to where my family and friends are

NopeNotGonnaDOIt 6 kids; Cuba 3000 posts
14th Dec '12

I would call my parents.

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
14th Dec '12

I would be leaving behind a good job.. I can't really like afford to be unemployed and stuff..




Arghhhhhh I hate him. If he told me it was over months ago I never would be taken this new job. I feel like no matter what I so I'm letting someone down.




I am so ashamed to tell my family it's over. They believed in him and trusted him.



So did I :(

AxylRose 2 kids; Australia 2130 posts
14th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monkey Nuts:</b>" I would be leaving behind a good job.. I can't really like afford to be unemployed and stuff.. Arghhhhhh ... [snip!] ... so I'm letting someone down. I am so ashamed to tell my family it's over. They believed in him and trusted him. So did I :("</blockquote>



I moved to Queensland from Melbourne to be with my now husband. If we break up he knows I will go back to Melbourne because my whole family is there, as it is We are moving to Adelaide anyways.

NopeNotGonnaDOIt 6 kids; Cuba 3000 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Monkey Nuts:" I would be leaving behind a good job.. I can't really like afford to be unemployed and stuff.. Arghhhhhh ... [snip!] ... so I'm letting someone down. I am so ashamed to tell my family it's over. They believed in him and trusted him. So did I :("


That sucks. Has he already asked you to leave? Maybe ask him for some money for first and last so you can find a new place? You should at least tell your family what kind of situation you are in, they might know people looking to get rid of furniture, and help you out as much as they can.

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
14th Dec '12

He said I had til the end of janurary.



We were in a poly relationship And he decided that he didn't want that anymore. 2 relationships were just too much.
He's already moved out.



It's an incredibly fucked up situation.

Im watching you 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Adelaide, Australia 4985 posts
14th Dec '12

I'm at a loss and I guess a bit in denial that its over because its taken him 5 months to end things. And he still hasn't actually said " I don't want to be with you"



this part of your post confusses me , did you know things were not working out



also if you think its over why are you waiting for HIM to say "i don't want to be with you"
f**k that , i would be the one making the decision not waiting for him to tell you



why did you only take so little of you belongings when you moved , if you were moving then you take everything you need



i hope this didn't come across rude as it wasn't meant to



goodluck

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
14th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Im watching you:</b>" I'm at a loss and I guess a bit in denial that its over because its taken him 5 months to end things. ... [snip!] ... , if you were moving then you take everything you need i hope this didn't come across rude as it wasn't meant to goodluck"</blockquote>




I moved into his home with everything in it. Bed, fridge freezer etc etc.
I didn't need anything..

NopeNotGonnaDOIt 6 kids; Cuba 3000 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Monkey Nuts:" He said I had til the end of janurary. We were in a poly relationship And he decided that he didn't ... [snip!] ... didn't want that anymore. 2 relationships were just too much. He's already moved out. It's an incredibly fucked up situation."


so he's moved out until the end of January? Sell all his shit and peace out!

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
14th Dec '12

Lol..
I should hey..