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I need advice, asap. OhioLady Due February 5 (girl); Japan 2 posts
14th Dec '12

I just left an unsafe relationship.
I had to erase everything, change my number.. etc.
This isn't my real babygaga account either.. because he knows my other one so I don't want to post using that one. I know he reads it.
but I left for a lot of reasons.
I'm 31 weeks pregnant, by my oldest childs father.
ex & I were not together for long.
He kept threatening me, my family.. calling all of us names.
Emotional abuse/metal abuse that I know would turn physical.
I left as soon as I could.



I've already called the police on him twice, but he will not leave me alone still.
It's been over a week now and I can't get him to stop.
He stalks my house, my moms and all my familys to see where I am at.
I don't feel safe being alone.
I stayed with my mom a few days and now I'm back at home.. I know I can't hide forever and I can't afford to move, section 8 housing reasons.
He keeps saying I'm lucky I'm pregnant, things like that.



He had it to the point where I couldn't speak to my kids dad.. and I was scared to tell him I needed help getting out of this relationship.
He put apps on my phone sending all my text/calls to his phone (I didn't know he did this until I went to change my number )
He always checked my computer to see what I was doing..
Came into my work.
Constantly called me.



Just an idea of how things were going.



but I don't know what else to do.
The police won't do anything to him.
They said he hasn't physically harmed me.

user banned Due January 20; 33 kids; North Carolina 14662 posts
14th Dec '12

restraining order.
ASAP

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
14th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting OhioLady:</b>" I just left an unsafe relationship. I had to erase everything, change my number.. etc. This isn't my ... [snip!] ... were going. but I don't know what else to do. The police won't do anything to him. They said he hasn't physically harmed me."</blockquote>




Restraining order and tell your boss to ban him from the premises. That way if e comes by your work you can have him arrested or at least escorted out.

OhioLady Due February 5 (girl); Japan 2 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting OhioLady:</b>" I just left an unsafe relationship. I had to ... [snip!] ... your boss to ban him from the premises. That way if e comes by your work you can have him arrested or at least escorted out."


My boss won't do that unless he has a cause.
I already spoke with him about it, he doesn't think he will come bug me at work.. but he comes in and "buys" something so he gets away with it.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting OhioLady:" My boss won't do that unless he has a cause. I already spoke with him about it, he doesn't think he will come bug me at work.. but he comes in and "buys" something so he gets away with it."


Well a restraining order would be a cause.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20225 posts
14th Dec '12

I would look into a restraining order.



Good for you for leaving and hopefully things get better and he leaves you alone soon.