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MamaTiffy Due August 2 (girl); 2 kids; Sunnyvale, CA, United States 8740 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Squeaky McGee:" No, it doesn't, lol."


Like it brought us even closer together and I wanted him even more, that and I think hormones had a lot to do with it and the vulnerability I felt afterward. I drank red raspberry leaf tea starting at 38 weeks and I think that helped a lot with the PP bleeding. So I called my doc first and told him I had stopped bleeding and he said it was ok to have sex if I felt physically ready and comfortable with it.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7872 posts
14th Dec '12

I know how you feel! I really just want to be intimate with DH. He told me a few minutes ago, "I can't wait to tap that..." Ahahahaha. It must be on his mind, too...Considering he NEVER says things like that.

Erin Berlin 1 child; Akron, Ohio 292 posts
15th Dec '12
Quoting Alyssa's mommy [EBFT]:" Haha I was the opposite. I mean we had sex right up until the day I had her, but afterwards I felt even so much closer to him that I just had to physically have him if that makes sense? "

Makes sense to me. I felt like a completely different person. She said I had a superficial tear that was pretty much just a scratch and my epidural was so intense I never felt the delivery so I don't have that "Labor was so rough, I can't think about sex again" experience I have heard a lot of moms report. I think as long as you use condoms it lowers the risk, but it doesn't go away. I think it's just we've been so stressed, not sleeping, then Zan was in the hospital for his jaundice, come home, more not sleeping, and somehow it's brought us closer.

deletedasdfghjjk 1 child; London, United Kingdom 994 posts
15th Dec '12

i had sex at 3 weeks, and i was the same way. I was super super bitchy & mean until I got laid , haha
I would suggest use a vibrator, don't insert anything for a few weeks atleast.

NewMommyXOXO 1 child; South Carolina 1183 posts
15th Dec '12

i waited 4 weeks...i was done bleeding and used a condom...lol

Mrs. Medford Due November 16 (boy); Marion, North Carolina 66 posts
18th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Erin Berlin:</b>" Sorry if that's a little too direct. My entire pregnancy I wanted no affection. No sex, no cuddling, ... [snip!] ... have kids that are a few months old and they still haven't had sex and I just can't get enough. What the hell is wrong with me?"</blockquote>



I was the saaaame way my entire pregnancy I didnt want him near me or touching me.. Our son is now 3wks and im so loving I dont even want him leaving me for work it breaks,my heart! Lol We started having sex again Saturday and I cant get enough of him! (;